namida
going out with a whimper
- Jan 5, 2023
- 20
my birthday is next month. ill be turning 23. i havent accomplished anything in life that i should have at this point. my long term boyfriend who was the last person who gave a shit about me broke up with me in october and its clear he doesnt care what happens to me anymore. i am diagnosed with bpd and no amount of therapy or medication has helped me. most doctors dont even take me seriously. i gave up on my dreams long ago because i know i will never have enough money or motivation to make them a reality. i dont want to fight to sustain a life i never asked for to begin with. on top of that, i am the child of a rape victim and it is a burden that weighs on me every day that i should have been aborted, but i wasn't.
i want to die before my birthday. but i am just too much of a coward. since age 12 ive tried overdosing on pills and they never do anything more than make me feel nauseous for a few hours. i have tried hanging myself repeatedly, to where i am now experiencing vision and hearing problems as well as tasting blood in my mouth on a regular basis. and yet, my body refused to die. i have stared out over a bridge for hours, trying to convince myself to jump, but every time being too much of a coward. i have waited hours for a train to come only to watch it pass me by instead of running in front of it.
people have tried to tell me that this is proof that i do not really want to die, and it's insulting. i have no reason to live. i serve no purpose to anyone. i exist to occupy space and waste valuable food and oxygen that could go towards someone who will actually make something of their life. the only reason im still here is because i fail at everything i do. if i fail hard enough, i could end up in a worse state than im already in- as a vegetable, or seriously disfigured in some other manner.
to die on or before my birthday would be the best gift i could ask for. but time is ticking, and i know i likely will not reach that deadline. still, i feel a sense of relief, that maybe if i'm patient, the ability to push through my fears will come through and i'll finally succeed. all of the years i've wasted right now won't mean a thing, because i'll be gone for good. i won't be here to disappoint anyone else, i won't have to suffer another day. i feel like everything is leading up to this. i will continue to waste the days away until the opportunity arises. but god, it cannot come fast enough. and im afraid that my expiration date is much further off than i would hope. still, i will keep trying. i've reached a point now where, maybe it doesn't even matter if i fail, because i was useless to everyone anyway. if im a vegetable i will serve no less purpose than i do right now. and if i don't keep trying, then i will continue to live selfishly.
thank you to anyone who read this. i just wanted to get this off my chest.
i want to die before my birthday. but i am just too much of a coward. since age 12 ive tried overdosing on pills and they never do anything more than make me feel nauseous for a few hours. i have tried hanging myself repeatedly, to where i am now experiencing vision and hearing problems as well as tasting blood in my mouth on a regular basis. and yet, my body refused to die. i have stared out over a bridge for hours, trying to convince myself to jump, but every time being too much of a coward. i have waited hours for a train to come only to watch it pass me by instead of running in front of it.
people have tried to tell me that this is proof that i do not really want to die, and it's insulting. i have no reason to live. i serve no purpose to anyone. i exist to occupy space and waste valuable food and oxygen that could go towards someone who will actually make something of their life. the only reason im still here is because i fail at everything i do. if i fail hard enough, i could end up in a worse state than im already in- as a vegetable, or seriously disfigured in some other manner.
to die on or before my birthday would be the best gift i could ask for. but time is ticking, and i know i likely will not reach that deadline. still, i feel a sense of relief, that maybe if i'm patient, the ability to push through my fears will come through and i'll finally succeed. all of the years i've wasted right now won't mean a thing, because i'll be gone for good. i won't be here to disappoint anyone else, i won't have to suffer another day. i feel like everything is leading up to this. i will continue to waste the days away until the opportunity arises. but god, it cannot come fast enough. and im afraid that my expiration date is much further off than i would hope. still, i will keep trying. i've reached a point now where, maybe it doesn't even matter if i fail, because i was useless to everyone anyway. if im a vegetable i will serve no less purpose than i do right now. and if i don't keep trying, then i will continue to live selfishly.
thank you to anyone who read this. i just wanted to get this off my chest.