I walked in on my friends slut-shaming me.

[Utter_emptiness]

After I finished my exam and I came to my dorm room, I walked in on my 'closest friends' talking shit about me. These are the people who I felt quite comfortable with to the point I shared my deepest secrets including the fact that I'm an apostate. For ages, I shared my views with them concerning sex and how I wouldn't mind sleeping with multiple people before my marriage in order to figure out what im into and end up with someone who's sexually compatible with me.

 

[Outandproud]

Oh girl im so sorry. Its so much harder for us women. Where are u from or what religion are your friends into? When i was younger that happened to me too. Now my country is so much open, not so many taboos still i can feel the judging sometimes. What did you hear them say about you?

 

[stermc]

I am so sorry this happened to you. Friends are complicated. We often mistake colleagues for friends.
Make sure you never doubt yourself and beliefs because of other people's opinions.
Fuck them.

 

[Utter_emptiness]

Oh girl im so sorry. Its so much harder for us women. Where are u from or what religion are your friends into? When i was younger that happened to me too. Now my country is so much open, not so many taboos still i can feel the judging sometimes. What did you hear them say about you?

I'm from algeria (it's an islamic country in north africa). They were saying how easy I am and how me talking about my sexuality is a sign of how immodest I am and how I lack morals.

 

[Suicidebydeath]

I'm sorry this happened to you. No matter your background it isn't right for them to talk behind each others backs like this.

 

[jay308]

so now you know they are not worth to be your closest friends, maybe just friends.

 

[stermc]

I'm from algeria (it's an islamic country in north africa). They were saying how easy I am and how me talking about my sexuality is a sign of how immodest I am and how I lack morals.

That must be so hard to deal with.
I am so sorry there are some people who still think like that.

Your sexuality should be celebrated. It's a part of who we are. There is no shame in that.

 

[Outandproud]

They envy your freedom. Your brave, damn, living in an islamic country must be so fucking hard

 

[Utter_emptiness]

They envy your freedom.

They do feel trapped within their religious beliefs and they have numerously mentioned that to me so it's most likely the case.

Living in an islamic country must be so fucking hard

You have no idea!

 

[releasespieces]

No one likes to be publicly shamed or abused that way, sorry people suck and are so insecure about themselves.

Those people are poopy, stay away from them. It's your body and your time here an earth, do what you want with it. The best part about ignoring shitty people is the excitement brought on by meeting new people to surround yourself with. Easier said than done if they are around you a lot of the time, I know, but try to be strong and ignore them, focus on those that support you and your desires.

As they say, water seeks its own level, just be you and everything will get better.

 

[Tesha]

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Hopefully this makes my feelings towards your comments clear, whether you meant them as a joke or not; you're an absolute prick.

 

[Inferno]

Literally a made up problem. "boo hoo I have it so easily biologically that it's impossible for me to be lonely" what are you even complaining about?

 

[Utter_emptiness]

Literally a made up problem. "boo hoo I have it so easily biologically that it's impossible for me to be lonely" what are you even complaining about?

What the fuck are you even talking about??

 

[Inferno]

What the fuck are you even talking about??

"For ages, I shared my views with them concerning sex and how I wouldn't mind sleeping with multiple people before my marriage in order to figure out what im into and end up with someone who's sexually compatible with me."
The fact that you're literally complaining about how you even have the ability to have a sexual partner or have someone who cares about you means your problems are made up.