Story I "proposed" to my girlfriend.

[Hans Voralberg]

So i yesterday fulfill my love dream from her teenage years. We sat at hospital chairs and. I whispered to her ear that I love her and I want giving her love every second, hour, day, month, and year till the rest of my life. I literally proposed to her and she agreed. This was the most beautifull moment of my life.

 

[Al_stargate]

How long have you known each other and been together?

 

[motel rooms]

 

[Hans Voralberg]

It is complicated we know other two weeks but meeting someone WHO is literally 100 hundred percent compattibile with you is a miracle. We are both from alcoholic families, both with depression and hipersexual disorder. This combination is unique per se. We are mentally and emotionally overmature too and Perfect compleate each other characters. We have literally the same believes and views on religion and life and parenthood. We both Like same poetry and music and do oon and do on it is a miracle literally. We both looking for each other for years. We told each other evrything about US event the darkest things i know WHO i choose im certain about it we discuss evrything financial matters too.

 

[Al_stargate]

It is complicated we know other two weeks but meeting someone WHO is literally 100 hundred percent compattibile with you is a miracle. We are both from alcoholic families, both with depression and hipersexual disorder. This combination is unique per se. We are mentally and emotionally overmature too and Perfect compleate each other characters. We have literally the same believes and views on religion and life and parenthood. We both Like same poetry and music and do oon and do on it is a miracle literally. We both looking for each other for years. We told each other evrything about US event the darkest things i know WHO i choose im certain about it we discuss evrything financial matters too.

Two weeks huh, lol. I'm happy for you and all but marriage talk is a bit early. In my opinion, at least a year needs to pass before any marriage talk. And do use contraception.

 

[Hans Voralberg]

Two weeks huh, lol. I'm happy for you and all but marriage talk is a bit early. In my opinion, at least a year needs to pass before any marriage talk. And do use contraception.

It is not about marriage but about stabilizing relationship i don t need marriage to be with her. We just made fully conscious decision that we stay together and do evrything to maintain our relationship in good health condition. We promised this to each other. This will protect US from fear about abandonment very strong bonded with being child of alcoholic parent. Both of us are from alcoholic families. Psyche in this type of family become old and formed very fast. We are old people in Yong bodies. Traumatized like very. We just want love stabilization and support for each other this is not teenage love. About contraception i learned about most methods before i end 15 i probably know more than any of people in their early tweenties. Please don't judge US you can't imagine what we endured in our lifes by far till this point. I prepared for being a partner since 12 literally by gaining psychologiczny knowleadge how maintain relationship evrything to stop generational trauma from alcoholism in my family.

 

[Al_stargate]

It is not about marriage but about stabilizing relationship i don t need marriage to be with her. We just made fully conscious decision that we stay together and do evrything to maintain our relationship in good health condition. We promised this to each other. This will protect US from fear about abandonment very strong bonded with being child of alcoholic parent. Both of us are from alcoholic families. Psyche in this typem of family become old and formed very fast. We are old people in Yong bodies. Traumatized like very. We just want love stabilization and support for each other this is not teenage love. About contraception i learned about most methods before i end 15 i probably know more than any of people in their early tweenties. Please don't judge US you can't imagine what we endured in our lifes by far till this point.

Cool, but my suggestion is just to take it easy in the beginning. Rome wasn't built in a day, stable relationships take a while to form. Wish you both the best!

 

[Hans Voralberg]

Cool, but my suggestion is just to take it easy in the beginning. Rome wasn't built in a day, stable relationships take a while to form. Wish you both the best!

I know i just want to believe that this is last for life and setting this as a goal is crucial.

 

[western_heart]

I'm glad you found someone, but there are a lot of red flags here... rushing into a relationship, with a history of trauma, dedicating your lives to each other after you've just a few weeks. This is a fast path to potential codependency, proceed with caution.

 

[Hans Voralberg]

I know codependency problem but we are strong individuals and this is more about symbiosis to support each other and be a better human being by this relation.
I know tempo is fucked up but we are not standard humans with standard history. And both of us made enormous emotionall work as teenagers to reach this point emotionally evrything was ready. The rights person was mising only till now. That is way we feel in love so fast. We have experiences that told us who we looking for. If you have deeply understanding of yourself you know what traits you look for in partner.

 

[Al_stargate]

I know i just want to believe that this is last for life and setting this as a goal is crucial.

I'm glad you found each other but my advice is; if someone is not stable on their own, they are unlikely to be stable in a relationship as well.
Obviously, I don't know you both and can't judge but you are still both in the euphoria stage. Work first on yourself, it's good you have support for each other. But don't look for other to depend on. I'm sure you know that. We came on this world alone and we will leave alone. If you find someone worthwhile that's good but that's all there is; Worthwhile. Just my two cents. Glad that you guys found each other and you're in love.

 

[Hans Voralberg]

I'm glad you found each other but my advice is; if someone is not stable on their own, they are unlikely to be stable in a relationship as well.
Obviously, I don't know you both and can't judge but you are still both in the euphoria stage. Work first on yourself, it's good you have support for each other. But don't look for other to depend on. I'm sure you know that. We came on this world alone and we will leave alone. If you find someone worthwhile that's good but that's all there is; Worthwhile. Just my two cents. Glad that you guys found each other and you're in love.

I know that her disease will strike back she is afraid of relapse but we trust each other. I will be Feed her wash her and changing her clothes if depression turn her into numb doll i will be there for her and she will do for me the same. And i will protect her from her own thoughts by taking with her just as she is protecting me. She is great support and my anchor

 

[rationaltake]

I'm glad you have found each other. All the best.

 

[Hans Voralberg]

I know in depression she will hate and hurt me. I know i will be crying because of her and worrying about her. She will be saying she doesn't deserve me and being paranoid about rejection . Maybe she will try kill yourself but relationship is about facing painfull reality of life together and we willdo it together. We promised ourselfs that we will try live long enough to get old age and put our artificial jaws in one glass of Water.

 

[rationaltake]

Truly wonderful

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

Cool man. I don't think being together any huge length of time is some type of necessity, having been in dead-end relationships all my life. Not to say it can't all go horribly wrong, but fuck it, why not live a little. Good luck.

 

[RandomBeaver]

So happy you found happiness. Please continue to give us feedback if don't mind

 

[rationaltake]

We promised ourselfs that we will try live long enough to get old age and put our artificial jaws in one glass of Water.

I love this.

 

[lostmylove]

I hate to be a naysayer but please don't throw caution to the wind. I am happy for you, but if she's the one you'll have your life together and decades potentially. No need to rush things.

I know love is exiting. Wish you the best. :)

 

[Julgran]

So i yesterday fulfill my love dream from her teenage years. We sat at hospital chairs and. I whispered to her ear that I love her and I want giving her love every second, hour, day, month, and year till the rest of my life. I literally proposed to her and she agreed. This was the most beautifull moment of my life.

This is really uplifting, somehow... I hope that you can fulfil each other's expectations and live a happy life together

 

[Hans Voralberg]

So as i thought before my girlfriend can't have children now we both know it for sure pregnancy will mess her hormons and accelerate sickness It took me a while to convince her that i am ok with not having children. I planned to have one child but in case i have to choose i will always choose her over my image of family. I will be happy to giving her love and reciving this love back. We are both sick due to PTSD and depression. We may both Die because of it. Literally Only meds and love are separating me and her from suicide( this is really thin veil but it will last as long as we have strenght to support each other i believe in it) and i know it. We love each other so much. I am happy that i will spend time which has left me and her together loving each other. Sickness will never left US relapse is unevitable it will just take longer in my case. It is really bittersweet ending but i am happy that i survived my attempt. That i met Gosia my girlfriend. That i experienced my first kiss with her and we both will have some emotionall and physical intimacy with each other. I am happy.

 

[Lullaby]

Be careful, but if you're truly happy and in love right now, enjoy it as much as you can. It's a really great feeling.

 

[Hans Voralberg]

Yes i am happy finally and i would not be a good father to be honest
Too much emotionall abuse in my life. My psyche can't be fixed

 

[Glowarm]

Congratulations! I wish you both the best and lots of happiness!

 

[Suicidebydeath]

I personally think it's great. You do you and go at your own pace.

 

[onlyanimalsaregood]