Interestingly, I have some sympathy for the original poster. The fact is, taking one's life has extremely negative effects on people around that person. This is quite apparent when you read many of the threads here; a great number of people are struggling with this issue (I am, it keeps me from seriously taking steps to end things). And so from the outside, the act is abhorrent, seems incredibly selfish, and should be avoided at all costs.
Unfortunately, this ignores the pain with which people are living. On a daily basis. And to simply demonize things is not a solution.
The fact is, I very much hesitated ever visiting this sight, and then spent months here before ever posting. What I've found is support for the pain in my life, understanding for my depression. I don't believe there is any other forum in which I could've expressed myself the way I have here. If I spoke this way to therapist I'd find myself hospitalized and/or medicated. If the original poster spent any time on this site, they should've ALSO observed a place where people who are depressed get support. Yes there is practical information, and tutorials. But there's simply a lot of understanding as well.