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_elliott
sweet adeline.
- Apr 24, 2021
- 148
long story short i don't think i'm safe right now to be out free. i think about CTB every single day. i'm in horrible mental agony. i've had 2 therapists very recently go MIA on me. my doctor is a kind guy but won't prescribe me anything past anti-smoking pills. (which do not work.)
do mental hospitals help? i need a proper diagnosis. i need someone to listen to me. i need the help as i'm on my last leg, here. i'm genuinely not going to be able to live if i cannot get any proper help, and i can feel it coming very soon. mostly i need to go because i have been very harmful to people around me as well, even as much as i try to keep my problems to myself. when i am allowed to vent to others, / when i let myself vent, i always make them upset and confused because i can't explain my feelings right, or straight up because my problems are extremely unrelatable to most people. i've semi attempted twice this month with hopes of not living and failed. i very very lightly tried last night but i was too tired from my past two this week and just ended up making my mood and situation with a close friend of mine worse.
my main questions are, like above, do mental hospitals work at all? even a little bit? will they at least attempt to get me properly medicated and diagnosed? i had one friend say yes and one friend say no.
second of all: how would i tell my parents/online friends what's going on? i am 19 and should be able to do everything myself, but cannot drive and my parents are insanely insanely over protective so i cannot just leave randomly without telling. they don't think i'm ill and i'm worried they'd convince me to stay. how long would i stay in a hospital? i've heard stories of people staying there for months with problems much less severe than mine. i don't want to worry / lose my online friends if i stay there too long, but to be fair i guess getting help is more important, even if i dislike the answer.
also: would i be allowed to smoke? i know the medication might ween me off but smoking is a major self-medicator right now. i smoke about a pack and a half a day. (so like, 30 cigarettes is normal for me.)
this is genuinely my last chance i think of being able to survive. i can't live anymore. i can't do this anymore. my life is such agony i cannot take it. i can't even sleep without my brain talking to me about it. i just want help. i'm trying so so hard and it's not fair.
thank you and sorry again if this post is rambly or if the question has already been asked. i didn't find anything like it in the recommended posts so that's why i'm asking.
(ps. i live in america, northwest, with a pretty "decent" mental health system... though most experience i've had with it out of child therapy has been total fucking garbage. experiences from elsewhere is fine too.)
do mental hospitals help? i need a proper diagnosis. i need someone to listen to me. i need the help as i'm on my last leg, here. i'm genuinely not going to be able to live if i cannot get any proper help, and i can feel it coming very soon. mostly i need to go because i have been very harmful to people around me as well, even as much as i try to keep my problems to myself. when i am allowed to vent to others, / when i let myself vent, i always make them upset and confused because i can't explain my feelings right, or straight up because my problems are extremely unrelatable to most people. i've semi attempted twice this month with hopes of not living and failed. i very very lightly tried last night but i was too tired from my past two this week and just ended up making my mood and situation with a close friend of mine worse.
my main questions are, like above, do mental hospitals work at all? even a little bit? will they at least attempt to get me properly medicated and diagnosed? i had one friend say yes and one friend say no.
second of all: how would i tell my parents/online friends what's going on? i am 19 and should be able to do everything myself, but cannot drive and my parents are insanely insanely over protective so i cannot just leave randomly without telling. they don't think i'm ill and i'm worried they'd convince me to stay. how long would i stay in a hospital? i've heard stories of people staying there for months with problems much less severe than mine. i don't want to worry / lose my online friends if i stay there too long, but to be fair i guess getting help is more important, even if i dislike the answer.
also: would i be allowed to smoke? i know the medication might ween me off but smoking is a major self-medicator right now. i smoke about a pack and a half a day. (so like, 30 cigarettes is normal for me.)
this is genuinely my last chance i think of being able to survive. i can't live anymore. i can't do this anymore. my life is such agony i cannot take it. i can't even sleep without my brain talking to me about it. i just want help. i'm trying so so hard and it's not fair.
thank you and sorry again if this post is rambly or if the question has already been asked. i didn't find anything like it in the recommended posts so that's why i'm asking.
(ps. i live in america, northwest, with a pretty "decent" mental health system... though most experience i've had with it out of child therapy has been total fucking garbage. experiences from elsewhere is fine too.)