Venting I need a man in my life :/

[ZardozOmega]

But this image exemplifies why I can't get one. Anyone else in the same situation?

 

[KiraLittleOwl]

Yep
I don't even need a hot one
But I am trans so they all run away after showing sexual interest in me. They don't want any type of connection. It feels like a curse.

 

[charlottewilts]

being in a relationship will not make you any happier. you alone are the maker of your own happiness. if anything, it could make you feel worse. that has been my experience, anyways.

 

[Randomgirl009]

It's probably not a man that you need. Just a meaningful relationship that could end up just being a good friendship

 

[KiraLittleOwl]

It's probably not a man that you need. Just a meaningful relationship that could end up just being a good friendship

I don't know about OP but I want romanic partner
A friend is different animal

 

[MoreThanAFeeling]

It's probably not a man that you need.

No, she needs a man. I feel her. But I think her standards are a little too high?!

 

[KiraLittleOwl]

No, she needs a man. I feel her. But I think her standards are a little too high?!

Here we go again :)

 

[Randomgirl009]

I don't know about OP but I want romanic partner
A friend is different animal

they say 'love yourself before someone else can love you' for a reason

 

[MoreThanAFeeling]

i imagine you'd be the one volunteering? is mass commenting on every woman's profile post on this site not enough for you?

You can read profile posts on the "what's new" section. I don't visit each profile. I share hugs or likes to every comment regardless of the gender of the poster.
And I don't Mass PM any one of them.

just because people here are vulnerable does not mean they're desperate. get Tinder.

What are you talking about? Why so salty? I am not hitting on anyone here.

 

[Lorntroubles]

No man or woman is needed. You want a relationship and that's okay. But quit telling them they need someone to feel like they have an identity or to feel better. At this point in time, I am pretty much all I care about and can handle before I ctb.

 

[Mr2005]

Getting a man is a lot easier than getting a woman. It's just if you want to him to be after more than one thing

 

[X.Pseudonym.X]

At this point I don't really care anymore.
I'm going to die without knowing what being loved feels like, which is something that most people experience in their life. I've never even had friends, let alone a romantic partner. :')

 

[Empty Smile]

Meh... I just don't have the time, patience, or tolerance for a relationship. I lost my gf 5 years ago, and haven't looked for a woman since.

 

[90sAesthetics]

But this image exemplifies why I can't get one. Anyone else in the same situation?

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I'm long beyond the point, as a 20-something porn star, of having as fulfilling a time with a woman as I did my last gf (2015-2016, RIP), but Xanax and ideations of self-termination have gotten me this far, so fuck it lmao

 

[Giraffey]

It's a treacherous quest whichever gender you are. I'm a young twenty-something with a whole bunch of self-esteem issues gifted to me by an abusive ex long ago, a grieving relationship in my wake that ended prematurely because of the said abuser. To top it all off, the last girl I was talking to as a date picked tonight to completely assassinate my character saying that I'm unworthy of a relationship, unworthy of marriage and basically unworthy of happiness - all because of a phobia I have.

Seeing as there are a few of us then, how about we start our own misfit dating agency? It's a bit like speed dating except you don't match on looks but on how fucked up your life is.

 

[waterbottleman]

Download Tinder or join any dating website.

In a short period of time you'll have hundreds of guys messaging you as long as you don't live in the middle of nowhere. Then you can spend your time picking the best guy out of the crowd.

Seriously dating for women is the best it has ever been. With the advent of these dating apps women have more choices and access to more attractive guys than ever before in all of human history. It's a great time for dating if you're a woman.

Take advantage of the opportunity. If you don't you're just doing a disservice to yourself and to all the people (I.e the vast majority of males) who don't have this opportunity and wish they did.

 

[Lastravel]

Have you tried anything to look better ?

Money is not really a problem if you're a girl, at least for most of guys.

As a guy, it's such a pain to find a gf when you're not genetically good wired believe me. I've tried almost everything, and it has never worked. Few years ago I was doing everything I could to improve myself except make up and surgery LOL
And when I was on dating app, even ugly and fat people didn't want to answer. Not pretending that I was good looking but wasn't too bad neither. Now I just hate myself and women, each time I spent on being a nice guy resulted by a big failure. Some people are just not made to live romance and stuff like that. But if you want to have company, as a girl, you can easily find someone (maybe not the most good looking guy on earth...)

 

[Beautiful_Disgrace]

I just want some goddamn loyalty and someone who returns my affection for longer than two months.

It's incredibly hard finding a best friend or a partner these days.

 

[ArtsyDrawer]

I'm on the same boat here - I have some online friends, even *gasp* one who is female, good looking and is roughly my age!
Finding such a person out there IRL?
Yeah, no, not going to happen.

 

[epic]

I had a crush on a girl who by societal standards won't be considered hot. You could say she was slightly below average, but she had a very nice personality which complimented my personality very well. I definitely could have attracted or dated "hot" women but I didn't find them attractive because they had a plain personality. If this could happen to me ,I am sure there are plenty of guys who feel the same way.
Good Luck!

 

[nerve]

I used to blame it on just being ugly but then realized I was sorta taking the easy way out. Looking like a chubby young boy in the early stages of puberty doesn't help, but being a complete fuckin dumpster fire is probably a bigger deal-breaker to more people.

I obsess a lot over the thought that if I wasn't such a psycho or was at least a hot psycho, maybe I'd have a chance at something other than "well, at least he doesn't hit me."

 

[BabyYoda]

Yeah, I need one as well. *sigh* Not having a meaningful relationship was the main reason I wanted to CTB.

 

[sadgirl2002]

I need him too but he's over 4500 miles away from me and he hasn't talked to me in over a year. I know that if I have Love from him, it's the only thing that will save me from CTB.

 

[Majin K.]

I had a crush on a girl who by societal standards won't be considered hot. You could say she was slightly below average, but she had a very nice personality which complimented my personality very well. I definitely could have attracted or dated "hot" women but I didn't find them attractive because they had a plain personality. If this could happen to me ,I am sure there are plenty of guys who feel the same way.
Good Luck!

Same. I have this one fantastic female friend I get along with very well and she wouldn't be considered "hot" by society by any means. Unfortunately she's bi and has been in a relationship with her hot gf for 5 years now. I don't I think I'll ever find a girl like her again. Not that it matters as I'm going to die very soon anyways.

 

[Eren]

I would also like to have a partner, in my case I am a man, but I have certain doubts about my sexuality that prevent me from having a partner, also, I have serious problems to socialize, so it would be very difficult for me to find someone, it is really frustrating and is one of my reasons for ctb, loneliness is horrible.

 

[ZardozOmega]

No, she needs a man. I feel her. But I think her standards are a little too high?!

I'm a dude.

 

[Tragoedia Vitae]

being in a relationship will not make you any happier. you alone are the maker of your own happiness. if anything, it could make you feel worse. that has been my experience, anyways.

I think that's very true, sadly. It makes me question whether there's any point in having
any kind of relationship (be it romantic or platonic) if nobody else can make you happy except yourself. It's pretty depressing--billions of people in this world yet we are solely responsible for our own happiness.

So many people spend their lives chasing after happiness, only to never find it...