magiciantripwire
Member
- Jun 24, 2022
- 5
I have no friends IRL so I decided to create a Twitter account. Everything seemed to be going well. I was invited to a discord server where we'd share techniques and tips to grow our Twitter accounts. I was getting feedback and people were engaging with my posts. Then I fucked up. I tweeted the following:
Men lost their way when they way shunned for their masculinity
The tweet made some people on the server uncomfortable. I was booted from the group without any notice. Why wasn't I told beforehand so I could delete the tweet and apologise to those offended?
The following is a discord chat I had with the moderator:
(I'm in bold)
Hi Did I get removed from the server?
I can delete it I didn't know it caused offence Is it possible I could rejoin, please?
**any updates?**
**didn't know about JK or Chik fil a so I'm sorry about that What pathways can I take now?**
**Have you thought about this**
Now no one is engaging with my tweets and it feels like I'm being ignored. I tried to apologise to one person who was offended, only to be blocked. I can't even do anything good without it coming back to bite me in the ass.
I'm also waiting on the pathways to be sent. I feel like no matter how hard I try I'll always fuck up somehow. Sorry for the long post.
Needed to vent
Men lost their way when they way shunned for their masculinity
The tweet made some people on the server uncomfortable. I was booted from the group without any notice. Why wasn't I told beforehand so I could delete the tweet and apologise to those offended?
The following is a discord chat I had with the moderator:
(I'm in bold)
Hi Did I get removed from the server?
You did. Sorry bud Your content about masculinity was making multiple people uncomfortable
I can delete it I didn't know it caused offence Is it possible I could rejoin, please?
**You can ask the members if they want me back in now that I've deleted the tweets and I do apologise if it came off as offensive.**I'd like to come up with some pathways to help you continue to grow, but right now I want the server to be a welcoming place for all types of people. Sorry for not having provided this feedback earlier so you could fix it. I've got a meeting in a just a couple of minutes but will give some thought to what else we might be able to do to set you on the right track
**any updates?**
Sorry, but no.
If you're truly ignorant about how offensive your tweet this morning was, I'm sorry, but it was insanely incendiary. If you don't realize that JK Rowling is well-known for being anti-trans or Chik-fil-a donates millions to anti-LGBTQ causes, I'm also sorry about that.
But we have sensitive men on our server. We have multiple gay people. I'm not putting my reputation on the line because of your ignorance, especially in light of how poorly another member's remarks were taken just a day or two ago about what women want.
Take it as a learning experience, but you crossed a line that cannot be uncrossed
**didn't know about JK or Chik fil a so I'm sorry about that What pathways can I take now?**
**Have you thought about this**
Now no one is engaging with my tweets and it feels like I'm being ignored. I tried to apologise to one person who was offended, only to be blocked. I can't even do anything good without it coming back to bite me in the ass.
I'm also waiting on the pathways to be sent. I feel like no matter how hard I try I'll always fuck up somehow. Sorry for the long post.
Needed to vent