Venting I Have no friends anymore.

[elizabethisworthless]

I have no friends the only friend I have who is an old man only rings me up to ask me for naked pictures and what I'm wearing to bed . Feel so lonely in this life maybe I should put myself out of my misery by ending things I'm always lonely and feel like was not made to have friends no one even talks to me anymore I'm a stupid piece of crap who shouldn't clearly be alive

 

[Deleted member 17949]

How old are you? I'm sure you can make friends. Having nobody is lonely and definitely damaged mental health a lot so I understand you. Is there no way for you to connect with people? Perhaps even online is better than nothing?

 

[PaYo]

I am alone, maybe we could be friends,and maybe more than that. I never had anyone but had firnds, now i dont have them eather. I wish to have girlfriend.

 

[elizabethisworthless]

How old are you? I'm sure you can make friends. Having nobody is lonely and definitely damaged mental health a lot so I understand you. Is there no way for you to connect with people? Perhaps even online is better than nothing?

I'm 18. No can't connect with anyone not even online can never make friends. I just live with my abusive family who hate me. everytime I make a friend they always leave me too so just always alone hate my life there must be something wrong with me I really should kill my self since no one really cares about me

I am alone, maybe we could be friends,and maybe more than that. I never had anyone but had firnds, now i dont have them eather. I wish to have girlfriend.

Yeah sure we can friends maybe I don't know how long it will last for though since I'm not good at keeping friends

 

[Crumbledank]

I have no friends the only friend I have who is an old man only rings me up to ask me for naked pictures and what I'm wearing to bed . Feel so lonely in this life maybe I should put myself out of my misery by ending things I'm always lonely and feel like was not made to have friends no one even talks to me anymore I'm a stupid piece of crap who shouldn't clearly be alive

The old man certainly isn't a friend, then! Friends don't do that.

 

[mem12]

Maybe you should find a hobby for yourself and have social interactions there. There definitely are free hobbies that you could undertake. Try a number of them and see with which one you click with.

 

[Deleted member 17949]

I'm 18. No can't connect with anyone not even online can never make friends. I just live with my abusive family who hate me. everytime I make a friend they always leave me too so just always alone hate my life there must be something wrong with me I really should kill my self since no one really cares about me

Yeah sure we can friends maybe I don't know how long it will last for though since I'm not good at keeping friends

It is difficult. I'm also 18 now and it feels like socializing just gets harder after school since you're not surrounded by teenagers that will loosely adopt you into their friend group if you look lonely anymore. It feels like now not being able to start conversations means I will never talk to any new people. It really is easy to end up totally alone simply because you're unable to connect with new people well.

With that said I am sure there are things you can try. Are you going into any further education or training? Work? Those places are opportunities to meet some new people. perhaps you could try to engage with hobby related communities online or irl. Even if it's something quite vague it's much easier to connect with people when you already have a common interest to talk about. Don't go into friendships nervous about what will happen in the long-term; it's fine to just throw yourself at people a little and see if it works. You might find that the majority of people you interact with don't vibe with you at all, but that is okay - there will be some people you click with.

I would say be careful about meeting people under the premise of being lonely. Being lonely is not a good common trait to start friendships with alone. I've had some weird interactions with sketchy people in places where everyone advertises themselves as 'lonely and looking for friends' so be careful. I hope you do manage to make some friends, and feel free to message me if you want to talk. Isolation is horrible and support could really help your mental state.

 

[Kain10th]

i have none either. keeping friends was always a struggle for me

 

[Alucard]

When you want to ctb, nobody can understand you - except suicidal people.

 

[strawberryfield]

i'm so sorry, you deserve better. i think you should start by stopping the old man from contacting you because he's probably taking advantage and i know it's very hard but maybe try new hobbies or making online friends using different social media platforms?

 

[Deleted member 19276]

Jesus Christ! Whoever the creepy old stalker is... I would like to tell him that there are a lot of cells in prison for that.

 

[Wisdom3_1-9]

I really hope that you can find friends here. Like Alucard said, it's difficult to connect with people who don't feel the same way about life as you do. There are already people in this thread who have expressed care and concern for you. I'm sure you can find a friend here.

 

[Black Rose Bunny]

This is so relatable. Idk why it's so hard to make friends and why people always leave me or use me. Only every now and then I get hit up by some horny dude. Idk wtf is wrong with me