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Daystavro

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Oct 15, 2018
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Like I mentioned in previous threads I am 26 male.
I am at university but I can't take it, it's too stressful for me both academically, all the exams and essays , and socially, I have social anxiety and I hate being around people and sociallizing.


My parents force me to be in university.
They told me that if I quit they will put forcefully put me in a mental institute.

That's why I want to ctb using the charcoals in car method.
And be free forever from all stress and bad emotions, thoughts and feelings.
 
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tevati

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You are grown man. I want see how your parents put you in psych ward against your will.
 
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couldntthinkofaname

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its your choice but there are really more important things in life then academical success
 
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Daystavro

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its your choice but there are really more important things in life then academical success

I believe that too.

I believe first of all , more important than anything, more important than going to university and having a degree and more important than earning a lot of money is to be a good and moral person - and never murder, rape, steal, and hurt others.

Everything else is secondary.
I appreciate and admire more a homeless person who did nothing wrong than a rich person who murdered or raped or hurt others.

My parents believe that the only thing that is important is having a degree and earning a lot of money.
 
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couldntthinkofaname

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Aug 31, 2018
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I believe that too.

I believe first of all , more important than anything, more important than going to university and having a degree and more important than earning a lot of money is to be a good and moral person - and never murder, rape, steal, and hurt others.

Everything else is secondary.
I appreciate and admire more a homeless person who did nothing wrong than a rich person who murdered or raped or hurt others.

My parents believe that the only thing that is important is having a degree and earning a lot of money.

i think the most important thing in everyones personal life, the thing everyone should drive to, is happiness.
 
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Circles

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Sep 3, 2018
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I believe that too.

I believe first of all , more important than anything, more important than going to university and having a degree and more important than earning a lot of money is to be a good and moral person - and never murder, rape, steal, and hurt others.

Everything else is secondary.
I appreciate and admire more a homeless person who did nothing wrong than a rich person who murdered or raped or hurt others.

My parents believe that the only thing that is important is having a degree and earning a lot of money.
Like I mentioned in previous threads I am 26 male.
I am at university but I can't take it, it's too stressful for me both academically, all the exams and essays , and socially, I have social anxiety and I hate being around people and sociallizing.


My parents force me to be in university.
They told me that if I quit they will put forcefully put me in a mental institute.

That's why I want to ctb using the charcoals in car method.
And be free forever from all stress and bad emotions, thoughts and feelings.
I felt the same initially after my second semester I dropped out because my anxiety of work overload that seemed pointless and trivial made me feel I was wasting my time. Then I got into a car wreck with my friend who was crushed to death and that was the tipping point for me. I lasted another two weeks before I failed and dropped out. I felt like a failure even when I was doing everything right society and family tells you to do.
 
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hunter_lewis

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Sep 17, 2018
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Like I mentioned in previous threads I am 26 male.
I am at university but I can't take it, it's too stressful for me both academically, all the exams and essays , and socially, I have social anxiety and I hate being around people and sociallizing.


My parents force me to be in university.
They told me that if I quit they will put forcefully put me in a mental institute.

That's why I want to ctb using the charcoals in car method.
And be free forever from all stress and bad emotions, thoughts and feelings.

there are other degrees and other universities or colleges. And some people don't have a degree and get on fine. Isn't there anything else you can do except kill yourself? How are your parents going to stick you in a ward if you quit? They seem a bit selfish to me. I urge you to rethink your options because it does seem like a waste of a life because of this one reason. Of course, it is up to you.
 
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polyswarm

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Sep 8, 2018
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I believe that too.

I believe first of all , more important than anything, more important than going to university and having a degree and more important than earning a lot of money is to be a good and moral person - and never murder, rape, steal, and hurt others.

Everything else is secondary.
I appreciate and admire more a homeless person who did nothing wrong than a rich person who murdered or raped or hurt others.

My parents believe that the only thing that is important is having a degree and earning a lot of money.

Being a good and moral person does not earn you any money. We live in a material world and need food, clothing and shelter to survive, and money is the way to get those needs met.

Plenty of ways to make money without having to screw other people over, and without the need for a University degree.
Your parents seem to exert quite a bit of control over you, might help with your stress to create some more distance between you and them.
 
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Autumn Winter

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Oct 28, 2018
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True I feel the same way about university and getting a degree, without a degree you probs won't make it in a first-world-country. This thought scares me so much that I push myself to keep on studying even if it's too much for me. I feel so incompetent and socially inept when I compare myself to the other students. Even when I get a degree, I still have to compete with all the other succesfull graduates.
 
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polyswarm

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Sep 8, 2018
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You have to get the 'right' degree it seems.
 
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