Venting i hate Shallow advice!

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i mean it goes without saying but its been particularly insulting lately....people really are so obssesed with the just world fallacy and deny everything that could mean that things are not your own fault....be it suicide, relationships, jobs or talent....to them everything is perfect and everyone receives what they deserve...its disgusting.

 

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I hate shallow advice too. I've gotten a lot of these especially from goody two shoes and do-gooders who feel like they want to ego-sturbate (ego masturbate) themselves so they do that, regardless of whether it is helpful or not. What is even worse for me is those that give unsolicited advice and treat me as though I'm an idiot or a child. I mean, it's one thing if I ask for advice, but I hate it when they assume I'm less intelligent or less competent than I am.

People love to say WHAT you SHOULD do so they feel like they have some answer. They can never say HOW and get angry if you question them. "That's something YOU have to figure out!" etc.

You speak the truth. This has been a lot of my experiences over most of my life when it comes to most IRL people.