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ThatStateOfMind
Enlightened
- Nov 13, 2021
- 1,093
I got my hopes up. My ex called me and (god this is gonna make me sound so bad and selfish) vented about her boyfriend and I really hoped they would've broken up. She was talking about how they were having problems and stuff and I got my hopes up.
I just miss her so fucking much. I also can't message or call her tomorrow because she's hanging out with him. I was happier earlier today but as usual, something slightly bad happened and my mood changed. Now I feel awful. I hate this feeling.
She's made it very clear she doesn't want to lead me on and also I had to push her to tell me this stuff yesterday, I want to say that so you guys know she isn't just using me for emotional support. She actually wanted to get off call yesterday due to her being so upset. J wish they would've broken up. Call me selfish, or a bad person, I don't care honestly, I know I am.
I wish I had SN but I don't want to buy it rn because I can't think clearly and I want suicide to be a thought out process for me if I do decide to do it.
I hate this shit honestly, I miss her so bad, and I wish they'd break up. He ignored her the whole day, talks to his ex, didn't call her, all this, and I got broken up with for being too attached. I'm not in a good headspace right now at all. I'm trying to think positively like "oh at least I helped her" or "oh maybe today will be different" and every time bro, every time it seems to go wrong. I know it's not a very huge thing but it feels large to me. I know I can overcome this but omg do I want to end it rn.
Cutting her off isn't an option, without her, I might actually CTB, she's a big part of why I haven't. I sound like such a broken record on this forum but so many people have been kind and lended an ear to me in my darkest times. It's just sad I'm so fucking attached to one person. I feel like I can't live without her bro, I feel like I'm suffocating in quick sand or something. I know I can push through because I have before through worse.
Anyways I'm gonna end this vent now. Sorry for posting such long and repetitive posts, everyone here is just kind to me when people in real life aren't or don't really listen to me.
TLDR: Wanted my ex's relationship with her current bf to end but it didn't and now I'm sad.
I just miss her so fucking much. I also can't message or call her tomorrow because she's hanging out with him. I was happier earlier today but as usual, something slightly bad happened and my mood changed. Now I feel awful. I hate this feeling.
She's made it very clear she doesn't want to lead me on and also I had to push her to tell me this stuff yesterday, I want to say that so you guys know she isn't just using me for emotional support. She actually wanted to get off call yesterday due to her being so upset. J wish they would've broken up. Call me selfish, or a bad person, I don't care honestly, I know I am.
I wish I had SN but I don't want to buy it rn because I can't think clearly and I want suicide to be a thought out process for me if I do decide to do it.
I hate this shit honestly, I miss her so bad, and I wish they'd break up. He ignored her the whole day, talks to his ex, didn't call her, all this, and I got broken up with for being too attached. I'm not in a good headspace right now at all. I'm trying to think positively like "oh at least I helped her" or "oh maybe today will be different" and every time bro, every time it seems to go wrong. I know it's not a very huge thing but it feels large to me. I know I can overcome this but omg do I want to end it rn.
Cutting her off isn't an option, without her, I might actually CTB, she's a big part of why I haven't. I sound like such a broken record on this forum but so many people have been kind and lended an ear to me in my darkest times. It's just sad I'm so fucking attached to one person. I feel like I can't live without her bro, I feel like I'm suffocating in quick sand or something. I know I can push through because I have before through worse.
Anyways I'm gonna end this vent now. Sorry for posting such long and repetitive posts, everyone here is just kind to me when people in real life aren't or don't really listen to me.
TLDR: Wanted my ex's relationship with her current bf to end but it didn't and now I'm sad.