The person I cheated on my boyfriend with told everybody that I know. He told me it'd be on my terms and said that he didn't regret anything. I'm so incredibly in the wrong and I have no idea what to do.
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humantool
Member
- Apr 20, 2025
- 36
Bootleg Astolfo
Glorious Bean Plushie
- Oct 12, 2020
- 808
Michi_Violeta
Without her I'm just a cheap Louis Krages
- Feb 3, 2025
- 477
As someone who's been cheated on, best thing you can do is own up your mistake and make amends for it. I forgave my first ex for cheating because she was honest with me and I loved her, it did hurt, but her acknowledging it was a mistake made it easier. Also, that guy is an asshole: you did something wrong, yeah, but that doesn't excuse him taking it public.
Withered
Member
- Apr 9, 2025
- 33
Well you're better than many cheaters already in admitting that you are in the wrong. To be honest, you deserve the social repercussions that come from this even though he should not have spread the word, and so you should make it a top priority to not let this negative experience escape you and to actually learn from it. Best of luck hombre
WastedPottential
Member
- Mar 12, 2024
- 12
Even if you are still in the wrong, which it is. It doesn't mean you can't make amends and keep going afterwards.
The worst thing is mainly all of the guilt and sorrow that comes with these kinds of things, which is probably why your Ex, in a blind rage, made it public.
The thing is that yes you fucked up, yes you will get ostracised.
Depending on how it affects your current relationships going forward, you may need to publicly apologize (Your EX has the right not to accept it) or flee the area and try to find a new life. It's hard, and will be hard.
Try to become better, and think about what made you go up to that place, potentially get therapy or counselling.
Even if you're in the wrong, you're still a person and you can improve, learn, and get better.
(I will note that I have no personal experience in this, but am just trying to give my advice.)
The worst thing is mainly all of the guilt and sorrow that comes with these kinds of things, which is probably why your Ex, in a blind rage, made it public.
The thing is that yes you fucked up, yes you will get ostracised.
Depending on how it affects your current relationships going forward, you may need to publicly apologize (Your EX has the right not to accept it) or flee the area and try to find a new life. It's hard, and will be hard.
Try to become better, and think about what made you go up to that place, potentially get therapy or counselling.
Even if you're in the wrong, you're still a person and you can improve, learn, and get better.
(I will note that I have no personal experience in this, but am just trying to give my advice.)
Pale_Rider
Specialist
- Apr 21, 2025
- 373
Cant say I agree with what you did, but dude is the bigger asshole.
meatclown
Encephalopathyathon
- Jan 24, 2023
- 26
let.me.let.go87
Meh
- Jul 12, 2024
- 299
I've never cheated and never would but you did this and now you need to accept the blowback. I'm sorry dude was a dick tho
I've never cheated and never would but you did this and now you need to accept the blowback. I'm sorry dude was a dick tho
I've never cheated and never would but you did this and now you need to accept the blowback. I'm sorry dude was a dick tho
Haematemesis
Student
- Jan 12, 2025
- 126
this guy did the best thing
people should know
a cheater is not to be trusted by anyone
people should know
a cheater is not to be trusted by anyone
22yearsbroken
ARLDSTE
- Feb 15, 2025
- 202
Shit happens in life... mistakes are made but you need to own it ..you cant erase the past it happend as shit does ...everyone has regrets in life its how you handdle it in the aftermath.. be honest be open no way around it but to just face it head on.
anonymous2025
Member
- Apr 9, 2025
- 71
I am a firm believer once a cheater always a cheater in that aspect and although I have never cheated or been cheated on that I know of, I know how it feels when your partner or ex partner finds a rebound though, it happend to me during a 6 year relationship. just a week after cutting ties, we got back together a week later and needless to say it didn't last long after that.
Ashu
novelist, sanskritist, Canadian living in India
- Nov 13, 2021
- 756
inverse-weibull
Member
- Feb 20, 2025
- 28
I'm really sorry you got put in to that position, that guy is definitely an asshole. You made a really big mistake and you obviously caused a lot of pain, but I don't think that defines you. There are some emotionally charged responses (and I can obviously get why, their pain is very valid), but I really don't believe that this alone makes you a bad person. We all fuck up sometimes, even pretty majorly. I think apologizing is a really good idea, it'll help them and probably you as well. I hope you're able to get through this and learn from it as well, wishing you the best
