Well 1st off..WELCOME to Sanctioned Suicide my global family member!!! Another new family member ...fantastic! As you may have found by now we are the finest family on this Earth with so much love, caring, kindness, empathy and SUPPORT! Again WELCOME!! 2nd) I do not understand your question too well, but I will give it my best. If you are talking and family or the like, the heck with them, I have had no family in over 47, yep, 47 years and do not miss it at all. Now if it is friends, I am 65 years young no smarter than the next person, probably dumber, BUT I do have life experience on my side, so with that I always say that true friends always use the maxium of: easy to judge, hard to understand and know knowing NOT to use something of that nature ever. You are a truly great global family member with so much to give all of us. Sending you lots of love and SUPPORT!! Walter (yep real first name, 65 years young, gray hair and never phony)