Soulless Angel
Did someone say Rum?
- Jul 6, 2020
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I am on rum, I am thinking
is this a suicide forum (for/against/supportive or not) or is it a antinatalist forum?
I am starting to walk from the only place that I found supportive, as the hate towards parent's is too strong, no one knows anyone's path and there is no right to judge, respect others, but don't ram down our throats that we are wrong in what we have done, don't you think we already know this?
so many on here, tell us not to have children as we are selfish, we are wrong, to give life to a child, then to even consider to remove ourselves from this life is wrong, as we leave that child in a place of pain,
Now whilst I am pro choice and not pro life,
We leave a hole in this world that cannot be answered by anyone else. You are angry at being brought into this world, yet if you CTB you will be leaving a hole in your parents life, or a friends live, isn't that selfish, despite it being your choice whether you life or not, where as life is no choice.
(yes I understand some of our parents are cruel, or you may hate them for giving you this life, but you know, its a two way thing here)
I am all for choosing your own rights, your own thoughts,
For some of us maybe our children were not our choice, (imagine for example finding out at say 30 weeks... abortion is not an option, adoption is, but at the end of it you have still gifted a life that may not be wanted by that said life)
Whatever the reasons are, please remember we are all here for our own reasons, and we don't need this rammed at us at every turn when we may already be in a dark place.
This is a forum for support, please stop it turning into a anti parent forum, I am sure there are places for that, put your hate there. Not at people in a dark place, a dark place you must understand or you would not be on this forum.
I am sure you wouldn't like it if I started posting all for parents and children.... and how we MUST recreate life, (I wouldn't but it's an example)
I am prepared for heat here, I don't really care, you can't pull me down when I am already at the bottom
Just start thinking before you start throwing that hate. You never know who's at the other end of it reading.
PS if this turns into a parent bashing thread, I will be asking for it to be locked.
is this a suicide forum (for/against/supportive or not) or is it a antinatalist forum?
I am starting to walk from the only place that I found supportive, as the hate towards parent's is too strong, no one knows anyone's path and there is no right to judge, respect others, but don't ram down our throats that we are wrong in what we have done, don't you think we already know this?
so many on here, tell us not to have children as we are selfish, we are wrong, to give life to a child, then to even consider to remove ourselves from this life is wrong, as we leave that child in a place of pain,
Now whilst I am pro choice and not pro life,
We leave a hole in this world that cannot be answered by anyone else. You are angry at being brought into this world, yet if you CTB you will be leaving a hole in your parents life, or a friends live, isn't that selfish, despite it being your choice whether you life or not, where as life is no choice.
(yes I understand some of our parents are cruel, or you may hate them for giving you this life, but you know, its a two way thing here)
I am all for choosing your own rights, your own thoughts,
For some of us maybe our children were not our choice, (imagine for example finding out at say 30 weeks... abortion is not an option, adoption is, but at the end of it you have still gifted a life that may not be wanted by that said life)
Whatever the reasons are, please remember we are all here for our own reasons, and we don't need this rammed at us at every turn when we may already be in a dark place.
This is a forum for support, please stop it turning into a anti parent forum, I am sure there are places for that, put your hate there. Not at people in a dark place, a dark place you must understand or you would not be on this forum.
I am sure you wouldn't like it if I started posting all for parents and children.... and how we MUST recreate life, (I wouldn't but it's an example)
I am prepared for heat here, I don't really care, you can't pull me down when I am already at the bottom
Just start thinking before you start throwing that hate. You never know who's at the other end of it reading.
PS if this turns into a parent bashing thread, I will be asking for it to be locked.
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