Hurting them by attempting

[Jinxyxx]

I wish ctbing would not hurt the people around me so much. I experienced the pain of someone close to me attempting to ctb and the pain is awful. Our whole family is still recovering from it even though that was only an unsuccessfull attempt. I wish i could live for the people i care about but im really not that strong.
Does anyone plan to do something before their attempt to make the grieving easier for their loved ones?

 

[Slow_Farewell]

I've always been an advocate of creating distance before CTBing. Like getting them used to not hearing from me for long periods of time. But distancing yourself doesnt make the grieving easier for the people left behind, it just makes it easier to move on. But the grief will still be there, and i only hope im forgotten about asap.