Discussion How to not be distracted ?

[Foreversad]

How to stop getting distracted? I think things will only get worse for me but since im still alive i tend to do things my younger self would do .its been 2 months since i met someone who is sick like me .what i loved about him is that not only he looks like he accepted his condition but he instead despite of being in a wheelchair gets lots of physical exercise takes care of himself and generally is a positive well organised person .on the contrary im not that type of person .i would like if he lets me know more about him and maybe meet him as i started think about him in a sexual way. The thing is i dont generally wanna get distracted of life .illcall it life. Its sex desire and things we all once enjoyed .how to keep a balance ? Annyone else in this problem?he seems to not be affected by my conditions a well openminded person very sweet and handsome maybe because he knows really well by him self .i didnt hesitate to tell him anything .and he expressed his need to know about how my body works .i was at first feeling like ' wtf' but in the end i ended up liking the fact he wanted to know what i do like in bed .still i dont wanna get distracted by life what do you do about ut?

 

[sanguineblade]

I think the reason for that is that you feel safe subconsciously doing things you once loved, thats why you enjoy it I guess.
As for that person well, you could try, and you might find yourself a life worth living next to him.
I wouldn't necessarily call it a distraction.