cait_sith
Brain rotted, often missing word
- Apr 8, 2024
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I am in the "happy" position that both my parents are dead and I am an only child so I have no close family members left that I could feel guilty over when I ctb, but there is the girlfriend of my father left who knew me since I was child and helped me a lot since my father died in 2015 and I know she will be very sad when I leave, although we only meet every other month now. I am thinking a lot about how I could write the letter and I worry about how I am unable to write my real reasons without her feeling guilty about not telling me enough that I'm "worthy" or whatever the things are people think that could help with when somebody hates themself and want to die because they are a genetic failure. When I talk with that person on the phone I started mentioning that I have a lot of pain, which is not a lie, but I am playing it up a bit with the intention to later write in the letter that I did ctb because I'm so much pain (which is also a reason, but a small one in comparison to the other ones) but she will probably know I am lying and it's a stupid idea but I don't know what else I should do. What do you think about this approach, what would you do/ what will you do when you write your letter, or have you maybe written it and can you maybe write some ideas on how to word the letter to make person feel the least amount of guilt , that it wouldn't matter what they did etc. I know it's impossible to control their feelings but I want to try to make this as painless as possible for her.
Thank you!
Thank you!
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