Discussion How to leave your loved ones?

[nunex]

Forgive me if stupid questions, but I am new here. Here is my quick story:
Sadly, after an infection back in may 2020, my brain got severely fucked to the point I've become a chronically ill person. I've tried every test under the sun, the results point to a chronic infection but doctors dont know where and what, some even say its psychological lol. I've tried every approach under the sun, with no success, and my pain is so unbearable that just the thought of leaving this Earth sounds good enough to me.

However, what bothers me the most is two things:
1) Which suicide method really is the quickest and painless?

2) What is the best way to approach or not approach the family? I really, really love my mother, brother and father, hell even my dog. I love them all so much, but for the pain that I live in, I cannot stay in this Earth, its pointless. They will never accept my suicide, and I know that, but how do you guys deal with this issue? Thanks a bunch!

 

[healthrecovery]

There is no way to deal with this its something they have to accep

 

[nunex]

There is no way to deal with this its something they have to accep

So, which one is 'easier' on them, by surprise or not by surprise?

 

[Elri]

Thinking that It's a dead end either way having a shell of me or having a memory of me. i think they will suffer less if I'm gone

 

[nunex]

Thinking that It's a dead end either way having a shell of me or having a memory of me. i think they will suffer less if I'm gone

Well ya, I guess I just don't want them to feel their guilty of me giving up. But that will happen either ways right?

 

[FuneralCry]

The way I see it, we have the right to exit this world at a time of our choosing, as we did not ask to exist, and it would be selfish for others to expect me to suffer for decades. For me personally, I plan to write a note, telling others that there is nothing they could have done to prevent this, to try and give them some closure.
I'm sorry that things are so hopeless. Life can be torture when you have health problems. I wish you the best.

 

[healthrecovery]

Problem is when you kill yourself you reincarnate and come back..i wish i could just turn into light and merge with the universe

 

[nunex]

Problem is when you kill yourself you reincarnate and come back..i wish i could just turn into light and merge with the universe

I could not agree more... the true peace

 

[Darkover]

life it's better to never exist in the first place

 

[Eternal Oblivion]

life it's better to never exist in the first place

After experiencing my own life, I find this to be truth.


I'm in a similar position. I came to the conclusion that by surprise is better. Just try to give them some good memories of you before you do it. While you are here, be your best. I also think that it's importante to leave a letter and explain everything you are going through and let them know that there was nothing they could have done.

 

[Darkover]

After experiencing my own life, I find this to be truth.


I'm in a similar position. I came to the conclusion that by surprise is better. Just try to give them some good memories of you before you do it. While you are here, be your best. I also think that it's importante to leave a letter and explain everything you are going through and let them know that there was nothing they could have done.

already told them i plan on leaving due to all my health conditions, dislocated left shoulder at least 10 times, most of my teeth have decayed, i damaged my stomach lining by taking an overdose of paracetamol now i get discomfort there every day and to top it off i have a bad cause of tinnitus and a brian injury, both my mom and dad said it's up to me if i decided to leave they said they miss me but there's nothing anyone can do to fix me.

 

[nunex]

After experiencing my own life, I find this to be truth.


I'm in a similar position. I came to the conclusion that by surprise is better. Just try to give them some good memories of you before you do it. While you are here, be your best. I also think that it's importante to leave a letter and explain everything you are going through and let them know that there was nothing they could have done.

I guess that's the best answer indeed. Gotta make sure it was not on them, and that it was the best path for myself and my inner peace!

 

[Insomniac]

What is the best way to approach or not approach the family? I really, really love my mother, brother and father, hell even my dog

write a suicide note that don't implicitly make them feel guilty. A suicide note or video can really help bring closure if done right (or bring more pain if done wrong).

 

[nunex]

write a suicide note that don't implicitly make them feel guilty. A suicide note or video can really help bring closure if done right (or bring more pain if done wrong).

I think as long as you explain the cause and that it is what you want... the fault is not on myself for being sick, nor on them