I want to ctb in a hotel room(by SN), but i'm afraid they might find me before i die. How can i make it sure they cant find me before i die? I also wonder if there's a list that makes me refused to enter amy hotel if i failed. lastly, i'm afraid that i might be expelled from my house and cant find a new one if i failed and it was known(i live in a small city, so the rumour can spread fast)
Azzy69
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- Aug 8, 2019
- 605
do it during the night and put a do not disturb sign on your door
TowerUpright
Disillusioned
- May 26, 2019
- 602
If you check in as soon as it is allowed, no one will check the room until morning. Adding the do not disturb sign will also keep people away.
MeltingHeart
Visionary
- Sep 9, 2019
- 2,151
Put the do not disturb sign on the door, and take the SN around midnight. That way, you will be gone before the maids show up which is usually around 10AM.
There is no hotel blacklist that I know of. Individual hotel chains might keep records like this, but I doubt they will be sharing the list with other companies.
You're worried that they will kick you out of your house because you attempted suicide? Why? Do you live with family?
There is no hotel blacklist that I know of. Individual hotel chains might keep records like this, but I doubt they will be sharing the list with other companies.
You're worried that they will kick you out of your house because you attempted suicide? Why? Do you live with family?
She would be a really shitty roommate to kick you out because of that, since for most people it would just add another reason to ctb.
howard
Experienced
- Sep 13, 2019
- 268
This is what I will be doing in the next week or two. I agree with others , go around midnight with sign on door. Best with a sea view.. the big chains have protocols and no one will be greatly stressed by finding your body.
Jean4
Remember. I am ALWAYS right.... until I’m not
- Apr 28, 2019
- 7,557
does anyone know how long the psych ward in canada holds a person for failed suicide attempt? and how long does it take to recover from SN suicide attempt? i'm worried about failing too much.
howard
Experienced
- Sep 13, 2019
- 268
Thanks. I've got a week or two to go. Kind of farewell tour of uk. Trying to find the right sea view.
Jean4
Remember. I am ALWAYS right.... until I’m not
- Apr 28, 2019
- 7,557
LegaliseIt!
Elementalist
- Nov 29, 2019
- 808
Canadian here.Depends on how busy ER and Psych Ward is. When I wanted help on psych ward, I was in ER for 5 days because busy. It's often an issue in small towns, too. (No psych beds). Legally, I think you can only be held involuntarily for 72 hours. When I wanted help, the psychiatrist was "bouncing" patients by convincing them that they were safe to go. I wanted to stay, was expressing my Suicide plan, and he was trying to "bounce" me out of ER. He changed me to "voluntary" against my agreement. Crazy!
@Tearygirl
Read the SN Megathread and wiki about SN treatment. You will definitely be in ICU, if you are near an urban hospital. You will be treated with methylene blue and oxygen. You may need a blood transfusion. This is just theoretical, but if you read the resources, you'll have a better idea.
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This thread has quite a few tips
( see the post by "Sargasm" )
Note : As always, please note that I strongly encourage you to seek help with whatever is troubling you. Things may seem hard, but with the right help they can improve. There are many sources of help if you look and reach out. Please seek assistance in any and every way possible. You alone must decide upon your actions and take full responsibility for them, and you should always favour seeking help and keeping out of harm's way.
https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/how-to-check-into-hotel-undetected.19654/
Note : As always, please note that I strongly encourage you to seek help with whatever is troubling you. Things may seem hard, but with the right help they can improve. There are many sources of help if you look and reach out. Please seek assistance in any and every way possible. You alone must decide upon your actions and take full responsibility for them, and you should always favour seeking help and keeping out of harm's way.
A few things to consider.
- Are you OK with wrecking somebodies time with having to see a dead body? Like cops and what not are asking for it because it is apart of the job. But I'm sure most agree that isn't apart of a hotel workers training.
- Are you OK with disrupting a business and costing them a lot of money. I was looking at making a firing range as some side income, and I came across article after article on people going to ones across the world offing themselves. Looking into it, in the USA some of them reported it cost about a good $10k to cleanup and so on. And many times they had to be shut down for a week. Obviously SN is different than a gunshot to the head. But, there is a cost, time it takes, and so on.
They have policies like making it look like 1 elevator not working, and moving the body when no one is looking. But I wouldn't say no one would be greatly stressed. Like if a maid or a staff member found your body, I'm sure they aren't mentally trained on that.
Should i use a hotel in other city? i don't have a car so it's hard to move. there's no public transortation going to another city.
My friend works at a high-end hotel on the overnight shift. When she gets a noise complaint she sends up security. Unless they hear noise coming from the room that they consider loud, the guest is left alone.
Your best bet is to check as soon as you can, tell whomever is checking you in your tired/not feeling well/your vibrator is fully charged/whatever and you do not wish to be disturbed. Put the DND sign on your door. Choose a spot where you won't bang into anything if you have a seizure, and do what you think is best.
Please keep in mind that housekeepers make very little money and that they need this job to survive. Maybe send a delayed email an hour before check out to the front desk or manager telling them what's happened.
You should probably book a room for two nights just to be on the safe side so when you are discovered the chances of you being dead are higher.
Peace be with you.
Your best bet is to check as soon as you can, tell whomever is checking you in your tired/not feeling well/your vibrator is fully charged/whatever and you do not wish to be disturbed. Put the DND sign on your door. Choose a spot where you won't bang into anything if you have a seizure, and do what you think is best.
Please keep in mind that housekeepers make very little money and that they need this job to survive. Maybe send a delayed email an hour before check out to the front desk or manager telling them what's happened.
You should probably book a room for two nights just to be on the safe side so when you are discovered the chances of you being dead are higher.
Peace be with you.
EmptyArms
Student
- Dec 1, 2019
- 148
Marz
À PEU PRÈS
- Aug 3, 2018
- 170
I'd say having background music/TV on to distract from the noise you may make. Like, not extremely loud, but audible enough.
Lotus1818
Experienced
- Nov 4, 2019
- 248
at midnight makes the most sense. no one will open your door for atleast 6-8 hours then. and you will be long dead by then.
but please make sure to leave a sign for the maid somewhere. that they should not enter the room and just call the police because there are dangerous chemicals or atleast that you ctb.
but please make sure to leave a sign for the maid somewhere. that they should not enter the room and just call the police because there are dangerous chemicals or atleast that you ctb.
howard
Experienced
- Sep 13, 2019
- 268
I've been near it, and had scouts trips to Scarborough as a kid. The whole area is nice so I will probably go over there for a day or two. I remember stathes is very good and near there.
GreyMagic
The more you care, the more you have to lose.
- Feb 21, 2019
- 173
I'm doing the same thing. Already visited three places by the sea.
It would be interesting to hear from you through PM. So we can share our experiences of picking the perfect spot by the sea to ctb in the UK in more detail.
EmptyArms
Student
- Dec 1, 2019
- 148
Staithes is fantastic and there's a lovely little pub placed just right for brooding out to sea.
I dn't know - but when I do this in a hotel room, I will book for 2 nights to be on the safe side. I will also take some kind of sign to put behind the door - with call the police on it....so that no-one needs to see my body apart from the police.
Then I will put the DND sign on the wall.
I don't know how long SN takes, so maybe 1 night will be enough.
Then I will put the DND sign on the wall.
I don't know how long SN takes, so maybe 1 night will be enough.
Lotus1818
Experienced
- Nov 4, 2019
- 248
Death occurs within 40min to 4 hours. Please read Stans guide about sn
Howard, I second Jean4s motion that you be sure to say goodbye, if you WANT to that is, your choice. If you choose to post I want to be here for you, either way.
howard
Experienced
- Sep 13, 2019
- 268
Yes I'll be posting when the day comes. Others posting has somewhat eased my mind so feel I should repay for them, plus i think it might help with any anxiety at the time in keeping mind occupied.
Mr.Nobody
Student
- Jan 30, 2020
- 108
Best of luck to you.
Hotel room is my only choice as well but I am afraid that I will make noises.
Hotel room is my only choice as well but I am afraid that I will make noises.
