Help how to confront ass friends

[A Sit of Doubting]

how do u not build up hatred for people who are so lovey dovey nice sweet to your bullies? give me a perspective to consider bc is this not just being so self conceited??? how do i just trample on this resentment because despite them being so kind to the people who persecute me, they do bring a good time lol.

if i were to confront them, what would i even say? that in favor of me, they have to adjust unilaterally just to keep me happy? it feels so mean idk. i want to pursue this "friendship" because i have no one, but if this is what i should expect from these i dont really want it, but if this is the alternative to communication, i also wanna know how to go about that.

ive been having these feelings for a long while, and to be honest, regarding my last post lol i don't know if i want to stay in my school so is this even worth it? itll bring trouble and idk god are they even worth it lol. no ones perfect n i do share flaws n im sometimes a bitch so ig its not undeserved

i want to confront them but theyre not exactly blueprint critical thinkers and one doesnt really harbor positive feelings for me. she always puts me down when she gets the chance but them as a whole (3) are basically a package deal. idk if i can change her outlook on me bc it seems like shes only reserving this cruelty to me.

now im rlly upset lol imagine not having any good friends what do i have to show in my life??? anyway tldr how do i confront people who are wobbling on the threshold of indirectly bullying me and being my friend if i even should???

 

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how do u not build up hatred for people who are so lovey dovey nice sweet to your bullies? give me a perspective to consider bc is this not just being so self conceited??? how do i just trample on this resentment because despite them being so kind to the people who persecute me, they do bring a good time lol.

Are those people aware of what the bullies did to you?

if i were to confront them, what would i even say?

There are many ways to go about it. Remember this is your own life: you have the express right to talk about it.

I hope to write to you later in terms of specific directions . I don't want to give half-baked advice that might cause more conundrum .

that in favor of me, they have to adjust unilaterally just to keep me happy? it feels so mean idk. i want to pursue this "friendship" because i have no one, but if this is what i should expect from these i dont really want it, but if this is the alternative to communication, i also wanna know how to go about that.

There are many different ways and I hope to write more to you on this :).

ive been having these feelings for a long while, and to be honest, regarding my last post lol i don't know if i want to stay in my school so is this even worth it? itll bring trouble and idk god are they even worth it lol. no ones perfect n i do share flaws n im sometimes a bitch so ig its not undeserved

I mean… it is a constant stream of trigger and trauma for you. Also you're not a bitch this is a reasonable concern good friend

i want to confront them but theyre not exactly blueprint critical thinkers and one doesnt really harbor positive feelings for me. she always puts me down when she gets the chance but them as a whole (3) are basically a package deal. idk if i can change her outlook on me bc it seems like shes only reserving this cruelty to me.

I'm sorry to hear she's such a jerk to you. May you be free to cut such people off in the future .

now im rlly upset lol imagine not having any good friends what do i have to show in my life??? anyway tldr how do i confront people who are wobbling on the threshold of indirectly bullying me and being my friend if i even should???

It is not your deficiency, but theirs.

I'm glad to see you are able to see when people are standing, even in slight, against you.

I should think carefully about what I advise you because I don't want you to experience any more bother than you already have .

Take care of yourself, @A Sit of Doubting. Hoping to correspond more with you in the future.