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How many true friends would you say you have?

  • 0

    Votes: 13 34.2%
  • 1

    Votes: 9 23.7%
  • 2-4

    Votes: 16 42.1%
  • 5-9

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 10+

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    38
YourLocalSadGirly

YourLocalSadGirly

God’s least favorite
May 6, 2024
131
Personally I feel like I have 1 maybe 2 genuine friends. I know plenty more good people that I keep in touch with but I feel like only 1 or 2 people are actually there for me and will support me through almost anything. There's also a lot of people that I consider my friends that just don't talk to me very often which is one of my criteria for being a 'true' friend. I still appreciate those people but I know I can't count on them any time as they have their own busy lives that I'm not as much a part of (which is totally ok). I'm thankful for the people I have in my life but I do wish I had more than 1 or 2 true friends.
 
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Macedonian1987

Macedonian1987

Just a sad guy from Macedonia.
Oct 22, 2025
695
In all my entire 38 year on this earth I never had a single true friend. I had people whom I thought that were my friends, but I was too young and stupid to realize that they were just using me for favors.
 
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alstroemeria55

alstroemeria55

Irreparable
Sep 4, 2025
106
None. Even your best friends will turn on you.
 
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Xi-Xi

Xi-Xi

The Seventh Circle's Favorite Witch (Fae/Faer)
Nov 19, 2025
225
I used to have 5 friends, now I have 3 after a failed suicide pact... I like them, though.
 
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hitagi-crab

hitagi-crab

Member
Feb 21, 2026
12
I have two friends that I'm 50% sure I can rely on so: one?
 
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Pluto

Pluto

Cat Extremist
Dec 27, 2020
6,422
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Arvayn

Arvayn

Face the end.
Nov 11, 2025
327
2 true friends, 3 acquaintances that I'm on very good terms with. I separate friends from acquaintances by a measure of loyalty, selfless helpfulness and frequency of time spent together. Having compatible social chemistry is the bare minimum, as a matter of fact.
 
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violetforever

violetforever

Mage
Dec 24, 2025
565
i chose 1. im glad 2-4 has the most votes so far, even if its only for 2 at most 🩷 i find it hard to believe anyone could have 10+ friends. actual good friends that know you enough and care about you! im just really shy and reserved though lol.
 
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yume_

yume_

Member
Dec 8, 2025
17
Out of curiosity, but what is your exact criteria for a "True" friend?
Tbh I have always had problems understanding this. I think I never had one, I mean there was a friend that I thought: "If I had a 'Best friend' it would be him". Unlucky, because our friendship fell off lol (my fault).
 
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dreaming

dreaming

sleepy
Feb 11, 2026
20
I'm not sure, my first thought is to say "none", but I don't know if that's completely accurate.
I've had connections before but it usually ends up one-sided either from the other person or from me.
I think there's probably 2 people who I'm completely comfortable with and trusting of, but they're so busy I don't get to talk to them much anymore sadly.
I do like that you specify, "true friend", there are many people I could refer to as a friend if I wanted to, but I don't really like or know them well enough that I actually consider them as such.
 
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Happy Cat

Happy Cat

Hopeless romantic
Dec 9, 2025
119
I lost my only irl "friend" because he never wanted to speak with me or do anything. I never go out so i'll probably be friendless forever lmao
 
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darksouls

darksouls

Visionary
May 10, 2025
2,720
In all my entire 38 year on this earth I never had a single true friend. I had people whom I thought that were my friends, but I was too young and stupid to realize that they were just using me for favors.

same here, my only true friends were my beloved pets
 
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itsgone2

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Sep 21, 2025
1,319
My answer should be 10+. I was blessed to know a lot of good people in life. Burned too many bridges. I'm sure I'm not the only one. I suppose if you did have 10+ you wouldn't be here
 
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pelicanportal

pelicanportal

life could have been beautiful
Jan 28, 2026
107
really worried i just lost my only one. i have never found anyone else i could trust. hope i didnt fuck this up.
 
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Lou_Charthethird

Lou_Charthethird

Member
Dec 19, 2025
5
After the point where you just make friends with everyone your age(like past age 10) ive had no real or fake friends. Just nothing.
 
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gottacheckout

gottacheckout

COB
May 20, 2025
711
same here, my only true friends were my beloved pets
🐶Good morning darksouls🐱

I have several friends irl, people that if I really need help they are there. Of course it goes both ways.

I have a couple online friends.

For quadraped right now I have The Lunatic, Cindy the cat, and the neighbors 4 goats. They have no idea who owns them and I share a property line with them.
 
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darksouls

darksouls

Visionary
May 10, 2025
2,720
🐶Good morning darksouls🐱

I have several friends irl, people that if I really need help they are there. Of course it goes both ways.

I have a couple online friends.

For quadraped right now I have The Lunatic, Cindy the cat, and the neighbors 4 goats. They have no idea who owns them and I share a property line with them.

good morning
 

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