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I always thought I would never talk about that on here. Too personal but I ran out of topics and I think my advice is pretty good.

I take antidepressants and antipsychotics. I spend some years without antipsychotics in extreme mental pain because I did not want to have erectile dysfunction/being impotent. I Was really suicidal because of that.

Later I realized it is not the end of the World and the take of David Foster Wallace helped. So then I accepted it. After some time it got better but only a little bit.

I met a woman some months ago and she Was really into Sex. (sadly we did not sleep together eventually but did a lot sexual things otherwise).

I knew that Wellbutrin/Elontril/Bupropion can be used to counter erectile Dysfunction for example when used off-label. And I tried it it is true. It helps a lot. But I got really agitated so I could not take it. Then I took trazodone. Also an antidepressant that counters ED. I got nightmares but my solution is that I take at the morning which is really unusual but I do not get sleepy by it in a low dosage. This decreased the ED a lot.

I thought well it is good but not perfect. Some months ago I wanted to try busp/buspiron I had to wait a lot to get it. It is a medication against anxiety. And this was the primary reason I wanted it. But I knew that for many it has positive sexual side effects. It barely helps against my anxiety. It does not have any side effects except that my ED fully vanished. I think I am now probably more potent than without these medication. Lol. It feels good. I never should have been that stupid to reject medication because of Such a reason. All my therapists downplayed it. My psychiatrist did not even know about the off-label usage of these medication. Well Internet research helped me a lot. And I hope I can help some of you with this personal post.

I think my libido is lower than before taking these medication but I started to take them with 18. I cannot really compare. I think though that my sex drive is pretty high, because of regular "sexual activity". Sadly most of them time alone but with the one woman I dated I had some sexual experiences and these medication really helped.

There were medication that even increased my libido but deteriorated my orgasms and that's not worth it. I tried more than 30 different medication from different companies and side effects can vary from Company to Company. And when you hear in the news that German health insurances accumulate a lot of debts you know why. Lmao. But I don't give a fuck.

The worst sexual side effects I had Was lamotrigine. I barely felt anything. But I read that for many women it increases sexual pleasure and libido.

I think after Making some sexual experiences I am now more confident to talk about it. And even when many guys claim they never had Issues with that I hope my thread might help some silent sufferers.
 
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My meds has pretty much destroyed my libido, so yeah. It is quite common side effect.
 
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Do you still take psych meds?
Yes many. Ziprasidone (Antipsychotic), Amitriptylin (antidepressant), Trazodone (off-label/antidepressant), busp/buspiron (the idea Was helping with my anxiety but it only helps against ED, but I keep it lol). From time to time I take the sleep medication zopiclone.

But I have absolutely no problems anymore with ED. As I said I think I am now even more potent than without all of these medication.
 

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