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WrongPlaceWrongTime

WrongPlaceWrongTime

Better never to have been
Jul 4, 2021
694
Always worried there will be a moment where I'll break under pressure
 
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ostsrsbs

Member
Jan 1, 2020
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Depends what the situation is, but I think DBT would say that you need a pause (go for a walk or something), and writing things down helps.
 
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whatevs

whatevs

Mining for copium in the weirdest places.
Jan 15, 2022
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Pauses or breaks help a little, you need to be able to step back for some time.
 
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Message In A Bottle

Message In A Bottle

I don’t need light. Please give me water
Apr 1, 2022
386
I dissociate - I had severe social anxiety in school so it's been my go to ever since.
 
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rabbitlinnt10

rabbitlinnt10

my life is a clown show 🤡
Mar 29, 2022
58
Turn my fan on to blow cold wind on me while I listen to either my sad playlist or meditation tapes
 
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fatefulstillness

fatefulstillness

ghost.
Oct 24, 2021
151
If possible, I remove myself from the situation and I allow my mind to go blank. I have a dissociative disorder, so this part is no problem.

If resting is not an option, I try to slow down as much as I can. Music, going for walks, writing are all things that usually help.
 
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Heartaches

Heartaches

Don't say a prayer for me now
May 6, 2021
279
My methods for coping are generally unhealthy and lead me to problems with others, but I do have some that aren't as disastrous. I usually draw anything that's been on my mind for a while or write about how I'm feeling or a topic I'm passionate about. Watching gameplay videos helps me forget about my problems for a while, music helps get some of that energy out, cooking something simple or going out and buy something tasty, learning about a new subject, petting one of my pets, sleeping or simply going for a small walk. Talking about it with someone you trust can also help, but simply talking about anything else that distracts you is useful as well.​
 
gottablast888

gottablast888

Student
Apr 15, 2022
171
exercise and bubble baths used to work for me now i take psychiatric drugs and cuddle my dog
 
onlyanimalsaregood

onlyanimalsaregood

Unlovable 💔 Rest in peace CommitSudoku 🤍
Mar 11, 2022
1,329
Benzos and pet my cat.
 

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