Help how do u choose a date?

[zadig777]

ok,i know i must die cause there is no way out
but i keep prolonging it to play on laptop and watch twitch :P
i cant work
go out
have sex
i cant do anything but stay on laptop

so i keep prolonging to play a few more games :/


i have to punish myself because i got in this position
but im too lazy to choose a day to do it :/

anyone with any tips or thoughts?
tnx

 

[lemmeeleev]

Stop going on your laptop so much and don't choose a date, act on impulse. That's the only advice I got.

 

[YukiFox]

Depends of a few factors. If we talk about a best day of week to die, it's sunday, because if someone gets worried about you doesn't answer the messages or not login on social networks probably they can figure you are on hangover or something for partying at night or just can think you're out for a camping.
If we talk about how choose a date to plan your death, you must consider that you are really want to die and not regret about it. if you choose on two weeks, two months or two years it will be your own decision. Now, choosing a date requires to know all the consequences of your act as last will, unpaid bills, every financial or social security consequences, real state, etc., to resolve before your relatives can take care of it or the government takes all of you. Isn't easy to leave this world, that's why some people like us search about to plan our deaths as best as we can and not doing it as buy groceries.
Only proceed to your own death when you will be totally sure that you want to die and do with a lot of planning, from your method, place to pass away and post-mortem errands as funeral or last bill.
Good luck and hope you can find a good decision to your inner peace.

 

[throwaway123]

ok,i know i must die cause there is no way out
but i keep prolonging it to play on laptop and watch twitch :P
i cant work
go out
have sex
i cant do anything but stay on laptop

so i keep prolonging to play a few more games :/


i have to punish myself because i got in this position
but im too lazy to choose a day to do it :/

anyone with any tips or thoughts?
tnx

man I know exactly how you feel.

For me impulse works pretty well but it's not exactly something you can summon.
Just pick the next day if that works,if not chose the day after that day....
What's your method?

 

[zadig777]

Stop going on your laptop so much and don't choose a date, act on impulse. That's the only advice I got.

explanation behind ur advice?

man I know exactly how you feel.

For me impulse works pretty well but it's not exactly something you can summon.
Just pick the next day if that works,if not chose the day after that day....
What's your method?

SN

 

[ZiggyStardust]

as someone with a well developed intuition, for me it will be the inner knowing that is my compass - when I am ready I will know with absolute certainty. Sometimes I try to override this and always get caught out. Knowing from the heart that I should or should not do this, that or the other and overriding it with my head is never a good idea. Listen to your heart, it knows when the right time has come.

 

[throwaway123]

explanation behind ur advice?

SN

wow man. If you just need to do it at home well just try to do it on impulse. Remember all the shit thats happened to you, get angry. Do it in the moment...

 

[zadig777]

man I know exactly how you feel.

For me impulse works pretty well but it's not exactly something you can summon.
Just pick the next day if that works,if not chose the day after that day....
What's your method?

if impulse worked pretty well for u u wouldnt be able to write this message cause u would be dead by now lol...

 

[throwaway123]

if impulse worked pretty well for u u wouldnt be able to write this message cause u would be dead by now lol...

lol well i got stopped once.
what other options do we have?

 

[lemmeeleev]

explanation behind ur advice?

Survival instinct is too strong if you choose a date, getting your method ready for anytime is best because then you can act on impulse, or "Just do it". That's what works better for me, just haven't done it yet. I dont know about you, but I can never just set a date in the future and say "Yep, that's the day I'm going to die," survival instinct always kicks in.

 

[throwaway123]

Survival instinct is too strong if you choose a date, getting your method ready for anytime is best because then you can act on impulse, or "Just do it". That's what works better for me, just haven't done it yet. I dont know about you, but I can never just set a date in the future and say "Yep, that's the day I'm going to die," survival instinct always kicks in.

wow I didn't realize that the SI was a problem for such a large amount of people . It seems almost everyone here suffers from it .

 

[Jc40]

Plan when people won't notice you're gone. Maybe don't arrange an exact date I find that helpful. I know when I would like to be gone by, when I don't want to be around. That's a help to me. I've od'd on impulse lots of times and regretted it a few times and wasn't prepared enough with amount. YukiFox post is great. With sn, plan carefully.

 

[ShadowOfTheDay]

The "ides of March" are just around the corner. ...just sayin.

 

[ArtsyDrawer]

For me it's all about logistics.
I don't want it to be in the middle of summer as heat waves will make it unbearable. Winter is also out of question - too much water. The SN DSMO might crystalize. I'd prefer a Friday night, as in, between Friday and Saturday to reduce chance of bumping into people. It's going to have to be quite late - around 23:30 at least as to reduce the chance of bumping into dog walkers.
For now, however, the act is postponed until further notice, as there is one thing I've yet to try to regain my freedom.

 

[Psilo]

Stop going on your laptop so much and don't choose a date, act on impulse. That's the only advice I got.

Boom

 

[Pepega]

ok,i know i must die cause there is no way out
but i keep prolonging it to play on laptop and watch twitch :P
i cant work
go out
have sex
i cant do anything but stay on laptop

so i keep prolonging to play a few more games :/


i have to punish myself because i got in this position
but im too lazy to choose a day to do it :/

anyone with any tips or thoughts?
tnx

i also wanna finish witcher 3 again before i do it xD