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What is the best way to send a letter once I am confirmed dead? I don't want to take the risk and send a letter when I am still alive, as I have to take into account that a suicide may fail. I have found services for terminated emails, but not for letters. It must be a letter, as there is no e-mail address.

Although it is possible to ask relatives to send the letter in a suicide note, it is not certain whether the relatives themselves will read the letter or whether the police will confiscate it. I would prefer my relatives not to know about this letter.

Do I need a notary or lawyer or does anyone have any other ideas?
 
mortuarymary

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Police will take them for evidence but will show the family. I'd ask a lawyer. Say if you don't hear from me in say 5 days send this letter.
 
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What is the best way to send a letter once I am confirmed dead? I don't want to take the risk and send a letter when I am still alive, as I have to take into account that a suicide may fail. I have found services for terminated emails, but not for letters. It must be a letter, as there is no e-mail address.

Although it is possible to ask relatives to send the letter in a suicide note, it is not certain whether the relatives themselves will read the letter or whether the police will confiscate it. I would prefer my relatives not to know about this letter.

Do I need a notary or lawyer or does anyone have any other ideas?
maybe find a weekend that has a holiday before and after (around chritmas time the mail comes really really slowly) and send it at the end of the day so the letter gets stuck at the post for the weekend and the holiday (if you have post offices that dont work 24/7). however you will not be able to take the letter back in case you survive/change your mind..
Police will take them for evidence but will show the family. I'd ask a lawyer. Say if you don't hear from me in say 5 days send this letter.
do you think if you specifically requested not to be shown will they grant the wish? i think they would.
 
mortuarymary

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maybe find a weekend that has a holiday before and after (around chritmas time the mail comes really really slowly) and send it at the end of the day so the letter gets stuck at the post for the weekend and the holiday (if you have post offices that dont work 24/7). however you will not be able to take the letter back in case you survive/change your mind..

do you think if you specifically requested not to be shown will they grant the wish? i think they would.
I know they did with someone I knew and were given the original notes. This was in the UK
 
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inaminute

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Dec 12, 2023
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You could setup a delayed email via Gmail
 
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May 21, 2023
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You could setup a delayed email via Gmail
OP said "no e-mail address" ^^

I'm sorry I've got no idea how you could do it and how it could be ensured the letter is being sent in the end. Imo only someone very trustworthy can / will do it.
 

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