Discussion How badly will CTB effect those around me

[Ljthagooon]

Do y'all think that they will be able to find peace with my decisión or do y'all think they will resent me for it?

 

[LMLN]

I think they will be very very sad. Theres no way around it I'm afraid. I'm sorry life has brought you to this point.

We are here to listen if you need to talk about anything. ❤

 

[Esc9434]

If you don't have any kids or anyone depending on you, then you are free to do what you want with your life.

In your goodbye note, make sure everyone knows how deep your pain ran.

A close family member of mines decided to get on hospice and die, despite alternative treatments existing. It pissed me off dearly, but it was his decision.

 

[Steamm]

They'll be devastated

 

[Ljthagooon]

If you don't have any kids or anyone depending on you, then you are free to do what you want with your life.

In your goodbye note, make sure everyone knows how deep your pain ran.

A close family member of mines decided to get on hospice and die, despite alternative treatments existing. It pissed me off dearly, but I have to keep going. He made his decision.

My mom depends on me emotionally so I feel really bad doing this to her I tried to explain to my friends how much emotional pain I'm in Even doe it's jus my depression n my head I'm not in a terrible living situation or nun so I feel like they will try to tell everyone I was stupid and killed myself for no reason bc they told me I have no reason to want to kill myself and I sound stupid

 

[Jean4]

No offense. If the pain is so great that you need to CTB, the feelings of those around you would be an afterthought.

Maybe it's just me, and I have no family. But when someone asks this question I always think how I would be dead and I would never know how they would feel.

When my partner CTB he knew it would destroy me which is why he told me not to follow him. Despite knowing what it would destroy me, he still CTB. His pain was greater than the worry over his I would react.

 

[Esc9434]

My mom depends on me emotionally so I feel really bad doing this to her I tried to explain to my friends how much emotional pain I'm in Even doe it's jus my depression n my head I'm not in a terrible living situation or nun so I feel like they will try to tell everyone I was stupid and killed myself for no reason bc they told me I have no reason to want to kill myself and I sound stupid

What have you tried to alleviate your depression? Sounds like you still have a lot to live for...

Who cares what they think? No one has walked a mile in your shoes, so they cannot know how you possibly feel. Most people are too dumb to view things from all angles.

 

[Ljthagooon]

No offense. If the pain is so great that you need to CTB, the feelings of those around you would be an afterthought.

Maybe it's just me, and I have no family. But when someone asks this question I always think how I would be dead and I would never know how they would feel.

When my partner CTB he knew it would destroy me which is why he told me not to follow him. Despite knowing what it would destroy me, he still CTB. His pain was greater than the worry over his I would react.

I mostly jus care about my mom n I'm so sorry to hear that I hope you find peace wit yo situation

What have you tried to alleviate your depression? Sounds like you still have a lot to still live for...

Who cares what they think? No one has walked a mile in your shoes, so they cannot know how you possibly feel. Most people are too dumb to view things from all angles.

I've tried almost everything I've tried antidepressants I've tried switching up my diet talking to a therapist once a week I've been going to a therapist since I was 9 yrs old bc that's when I had my first attempt I've been miserable for a long time :(