helpmehelpme

helpmehelpme

self and collective help
Jan 25, 2020
76
Great resource, no? Updated fairly often including today

Perhaps great good will come of it

I imagine some already has
 
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BPD Barbie

BPD Barbie

Visionary
Dec 1, 2019
2,361
I met a great partner on there, @6ixxy, we had genuine plans but sadly he couldn't wait and went before our agreed date.
I'm not sure everyone has the same experience though and I'd advise people to use it with caution and have your wits about you when communicating with someone. If something feels even slightly wrong, close it down and if needed, report it. We don't want anymore sinister cases to come from it.
 
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GoodPersonEffed

GoodPersonEffed

Brevity is my middle name, but my name was TL
Jan 11, 2020
6,727
Are you talking about the recovery or suicide partners megathread? Seems like one has hardly any activity and the other is a dark alley in a really bad part of town.
 
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Brick In The Wall

Brick In The Wall

2M Or Not 2B.
Oct 30, 2019
25,158
They're both shit... I tried to make one but realized it was already created. So I self deleted. The recovery forum needs more resources. So I tried again.
 
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Yomyom

Yomyom

Darker dearie, much darker
Feb 5, 2020
923
I think the recovery partners is a thread with a lot of potential and must go on as much as possible.
In the suicide partners- I think that thread will bring end to this forum, besides the chances to find someone there Strive for zero
 
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puppy9

puppy9

au revoir
Jun 13, 2019
1,238
I think the recovery partners is a thread with a lot of potential and must go on as much as possible.
In the suicide partners- I think that thread will bring end to this forum, besides the chances to find someone there Strive for zero
Ditto buddy. Preach. What happened to a member here brought me to tears? I'm sad for her. :aw:
 
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I think the recovery partners is a thread with a lot of potential and must go on as much as possible.
In the suicide partners- I think that thread will bring end to this forum, besides the chances to find someone there Strive for zero
I agree with you @Yomyom
 
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Cashewmilk

Cashewmilk

Specialist
Mar 10, 2020
352
I think the recovery partners is a thread with a lot of potential and must go on as much as possible.
In the suicide partners- I think that thread will bring end to this forum, besides the chances to find someone there Strive for zero
I agree. The partners megathread is a breeding ground for abuse. I remember in the old Google groups suicide methods back in 2015, the one that was moderated didn't allow partners.
 
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helpmehelpme

helpmehelpme

self and collective help
Jan 25, 2020
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I was talking about the recovery thread and hoping to boost its profile, along with my own search for a recovery partner.
 
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Aap

Enlightened
Apr 26, 2020
1,856
This. The posts on the suicide megathread that mention wanting to simply disappear together have me concerned only one individual will disappear forever. The entire thing is a very bad idea.

if anyone follows the Jack Reacher series by Lee Child (Tom Cruise, inexplicably, has started in one or two of the adaptations), one of his novels goes down this dark road. I'm almost certain he spent a good deal of time ghosting here.
 
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CyanideSoup

CyanideSoup

Memento mori
Oct 1, 2019
463
I definitely think the recovery partners thread could be really helpful for alot of people here. The suicide partners thread in my opinion shouldn't be a thing but that's because of my own experience. It's a literal list of vulnerable people offering themselves up to potential predators.
 
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I definitely think the recovery partners thread could be really helpful for alot of people here. The suicide partners thread in my opinion shouldn't be a thing but that's because of my own experience. It's a literal list of vulnerable people offering themselves up to potential predators.
And what an experience it was. I'd suggest that no one is more qualified to make an informed comment here than yourself.:hug:
 
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lmroch

lmroch

Experienced
Jun 24, 2019
234
I know of three threads, one posting here.. & two are dead.

I have not followed everything.. and probably miss some things.

If/and there are.. there are issues that make users unsafe.

Have the modes.. Been petitioned here?

Did I read the LE has been involved.. What is the status?

Did I see.. someones account has been deleted?

Did I see.. someones info has been revealed?

You all know their links.. I'd have to search.. Please.. Engage them.

I don't believe..not for one moment ..this thread is not being watched!

We/ The SS site & community do not need any more deaths.

This last week.. Was sad.. and devastating.
 
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Sarainia Angelsong

Sarainia Angelsong

Female, Earth, Depressed
Mar 7, 2019
58
I never thought of it that way about 2 people partnering to ctb... personally I still think I would hang myself all alone tbh... I mean I'm always open minded, I could think about it
 
LastFlowers

LastFlowers

the haru that can read
Apr 27, 2019
2,170
I think the idea of partners is extremely problematic in more ways than one. I think you would be very hard-pressed to guarantee a partnership that would actually work out without a hitch. It seems like a lot of people who are looking for partners in death, actually just want a partner in life..or they are not actually suicidal and are looking to enact some less than savory deed unto the partner they are luring in.

The partners thread is a fishbowl of desperation with little perverted fishermen teetering on the edge of the glass, waiting to catch themselves a good, unsuspecting victim fish.
 
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I think the idea of partners is extremely problematic in more ways than one. I think you would be very hard-pressed to guarantee a partnership that would actually work out without a hitch. It seems like a lot of people who are looking for partners in death, actually just want a partner in life..or they are not actually suicidal and are looking to enact some less than savory deed unto the partner they are luring in.

The partners thread is a fishbowl of desperation with little perverted fishermen teetering on the edge of the glass, waiting to catch themselves a good, unsuspecting victim fish.
Very much agree with you. It's tank full of desperate fishes all in one place for the sharks to conveniently snack on.
 
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Krash1990

Krash1990

Student
May 31, 2020
110
I think there is too much generalizing on this topic..

I agree that certainly there are some wanting to take advantage of struggling people, but how many people have sought out suicide forums just to do something malicious to an unsuspecting partner?

Personally, I think I'd genuinely like to spend a day connecting with someone on a similar wave length and then go out together rather than dying alone and miserable like I am now.

Someone posted and said they felt so bad for a girl from the site. What are the details?
 
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Someone posted and said they felt so bad for a girl from the site. What are the details?
https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/dangerous-people-on-the-forum.39157/
 
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puppy9

puppy9

au revoir
Jun 13, 2019
1,238
@Soul They removed your post. This is disappointing. It's not even offensive.


@Yomyom :ohhhh::ohhhh::ohhhh:
 
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GoodPersonEffed

GoodPersonEffed

Brevity is my middle name, but my name was TL
Jan 11, 2020
6,727
I think there is too much generalizing on this topic..

I agree that certainly there are some wanting to take advantage of struggling people, but how many people have sought out suicide forums just to do something malicious to an unsuspecting partner?

Personally, I think I'd genuinely like to spend a day connecting with someone on a similar wave length and then go out together rather than dying alone and miserable like I am now.

Someone posted and said they felt so bad for a girl from the site. What are the details?

The Partners Megathread is a nice idea in theory, but it is one of the dark alleys on SS.

Here's another thread about how the Partners Megathread is abused for non-ctb partner purposes:

https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/partners-looking-for-pity-sex-or-genuine-ctb-partner.30946/
 
peacechoice

peacechoice

Experienced
Oct 11, 2020
205
yes the idea of partners is scary because for one we don't know the other partners intentions. However, I would love to have a partner who wants to go out with me not unwittingly. They have to be sure and our method has to be set up and everything. I don't want a life partner, just simply someone who views this world like me and wants out ASAP. I do understand the problem though.
 
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LittleJem

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Jul 3, 2019
2,598
I am nervous of technical stuff involved
 

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