L
Ligottian
Elementalist
- Dec 19, 2021
- 835
Would you currently rate your current living quarters as a pigsty or spotless and well ordered? I will skip the 1-10 rating thing.
I need the 1-10 rating.Would you currently rate your current living quarters as a pigsty or spotless and well ordered? I will skip the 1-10 rating thing.
Yea I'm pretty sure most of us don't have the energy, motivation, or means to actually keep our living areas the way we would want them if different circumstances allowed for it. Same for things like hygiene, clothing style, general neatness and orderliness etc.In between right now.
In my heyday I liked to keep things absolutely spotless. I even went as far as having power points installed inside cupboards so that the kettle and microwave would be hidden from sight. Somehow I went from that to a pigsty of stuff all over the floor as energy levels went down, in part because of not having people over anymore (due in part to lockdowns but also becoming more isolated in general). Now I'm trying very hard to go back to how things used to be. Managed to finish mowing the lawn properly yesterday for the first time in probably years! So there's definitely a mental health connection.
Same, I don't have enough space for all my shit and I can only put it in so many places because there is another human presence in the home that likes to destroy things daily.I try to clean but my room is always a mess. I think it is hard to clean when there is a lot of items. I cannot bring myself to throw items out. It is all so depressing. I hate cleaning.
I like when other people's houses are messy and chaotic, makes me feel more comfortable and I don't have to deal with any obnoxious anal nonsense, nor do I have to worry as much over being accused of "ruining" anything.i keep the house clean at all costs. i already have anxiety i dont need more of it seeing piles of junk everywhere. when someone invites me over and their house is chaotic i want to leave immediately no offense if you live like that lol
i hate that vibe too. i let my guests make a mess but when they reach the house has to be cleanI like when other people's houses are messy and chaotic, makes me feel more comfortable and I don't have to deal with any obnoxious anal nonsense, nor do I have to worry as much over being accused of "ruining" anything.
omG what a rude cop. How could they say that in front of you.It's well ordered. I was raised and neglected in a poverty-stricken messy home. A cop came to my house when I was a child and said it was the worst conditions he ever saw. Now as an adult I have breakdowns when my house is out of place. I don't mind being in other people's houses that are messy. I have a high tolerance and I completely understand the ways we fall behind. I just hold this judgment on myself and I need my place in order. It's a trauma for me.
I think he was angry with my parents. They had gotten into a domestic dispute and it was clear us kids were in a bad environment. Of course as a kid you internalize the criticism though. I was always cleaning as best I could but I was too young to keep up on my own.omG what a rude cop. How could they say that in front of you.