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Cupcake
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- Apr 8, 2018
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So, my heart broke a little more today, or maybe a lot more, and I feel truly ready to CTB. I nearly opened my bottle of SN today, but chickened out at the last minute because of stupid SI, and also because I realized I have one more affair I haven't dealt with yet. This is where I hope you lovely folks can come in and help me with your words of wisdom.
So, recently I got a settlement from getting hit by a car. In total, I got nineteen thousand, and I'm down to about seventeen thousand now.
I'd like to die within the month, if all goes well, but I'd like to leave my partner and our three kids with the money from the settlement.
I don't have a will written because I don't really have anything to give. I was flat broke before I got the settlement, so, really, all I have to give them is the seventeen grand, and I don't know if that's really worth writing a will for. What do you guys think? What would you do?
My partner and I don't have a joint account, so I was wondering, if I go to the bank and ask to take out all seventeen grand in cash, will I have to fill out any paperwork because it is such a large amount of money? Will the bankers ask me questions about why I am taking out such a large amount of money? Are they allowed to do that?
If so, how should I answer their questions without giving my plan away. I thought about telling them I have a terminal illness and want to take out the cash for my family in case something happens to me, but I don't know if they will buy it.
I've never had such a large amount of money before, so I don't know how it all works. The most I ever had is a little over two thousand.
I can't give my partner access to my account because he is on DSHS benefits and if they know he's gotten extra money, he'll lose everything. So this is why I'd like to just leave it for him in cash.
My plan is to leave it in a hidden place he won't find right away and then leave him a note of where he can find it when I'm gone.
I'm under the impression that, if I don't take out the money in cash, the state will take half of it, which won't leave my family with very much in the end. I'd like to avoid that if possible.
Any comments/words of wisdom is much appreciated. I really think I have reached a milestone today! I think I'm really ready to go!
I'm scared to die, but I'm also scared of continuing on also, so yeah… it sucks all the way for sure.
By the way, this is not a good-bye thread, so please don't ban me mods. I'll let you know when to ban my account, or I'll just self-ban.
Thank you, and thanks also for getting this site back up. I was really worried when it was down last week.
Cheers,
Cupcake
So, recently I got a settlement from getting hit by a car. In total, I got nineteen thousand, and I'm down to about seventeen thousand now.
I'd like to die within the month, if all goes well, but I'd like to leave my partner and our three kids with the money from the settlement.
I don't have a will written because I don't really have anything to give. I was flat broke before I got the settlement, so, really, all I have to give them is the seventeen grand, and I don't know if that's really worth writing a will for. What do you guys think? What would you do?
My partner and I don't have a joint account, so I was wondering, if I go to the bank and ask to take out all seventeen grand in cash, will I have to fill out any paperwork because it is such a large amount of money? Will the bankers ask me questions about why I am taking out such a large amount of money? Are they allowed to do that?
If so, how should I answer their questions without giving my plan away. I thought about telling them I have a terminal illness and want to take out the cash for my family in case something happens to me, but I don't know if they will buy it.
I've never had such a large amount of money before, so I don't know how it all works. The most I ever had is a little over two thousand.
I can't give my partner access to my account because he is on DSHS benefits and if they know he's gotten extra money, he'll lose everything. So this is why I'd like to just leave it for him in cash.
My plan is to leave it in a hidden place he won't find right away and then leave him a note of where he can find it when I'm gone.
I'm under the impression that, if I don't take out the money in cash, the state will take half of it, which won't leave my family with very much in the end. I'd like to avoid that if possible.
Any comments/words of wisdom is much appreciated. I really think I have reached a milestone today! I think I'm really ready to go!
I'm scared to die, but I'm also scared of continuing on also, so yeah… it sucks all the way for sure.
By the way, this is not a good-bye thread, so please don't ban me mods. I'll let you know when to ban my account, or I'll just self-ban.
Thank you, and thanks also for getting this site back up. I was really worried when it was down last week.
Cheers,
Cupcake