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Forever Sleep
Earned it we have...
- May 4, 2022
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Ok- so this is a crazy post I know...
I'm sitting here after a few weeks of the same thing- a few incredibly reluctant job searches on the internet, one or two applications (that have aready been rejected or, likely will be soon,) some very brief attempts at making money online (Clickworker site- if you've heard of it? Complete con in my opinion...) But for the most part- just this awful feeling of despair that I either won't get any of these nearby jobs or even that I will- and I know pretty much (from former experience) that I will hate them. Honestly, even the thought of an interview is freaking me out (social anxiety plus a huge gain in weight- so very few decent clothes fit anymore.)
Honestly, I just don't want to do any of it! It's not like I'm even funding a life I want to live anymore. Even if I miraculously manage to survive the financial storm in my 'dream' creative, freelance job- it isn't doing for me what it used to... (Mainly why I'm spending so much time on here recently- avoiding the inevitable...)
So- that's my initial rant over with (thanks for putting up with it.) Now is the reason I am still here- my Dad. I think it would devastate him if I CTB. I feel like I have to wait for him to go first.
Still- monstrous as it sounds- I don't know how long that will be... What if I have to 'tread water' for years?!! That feels unbearable.
So then- I thought- what if I don't wait? Is there anyway I could make him see and accept CTB was my best option? He's not against assisted suicide for those in pain. In fact, a few of our close family members were very likely 'helped along' in hospital. Stupid part is- I know I'm kidding myself. Even knowing I was actually suicidal rather than just plain old depressed (which is pretty obvious) would likely deeply upset and worry him. I've got this dumb idea that I'll be able to get him to see it rationally but I know I won't because our thinking is so different. He's appalled by 'healthy' people taking their own lives.
Anyhow, I suppose I wanted to ask- for those of you who have told people (especially your parents,) what was their response? And for those who haven't- what do you think they'd say? Do you suppose they'd ever understand or even support us?
I'm sitting here after a few weeks of the same thing- a few incredibly reluctant job searches on the internet, one or two applications (that have aready been rejected or, likely will be soon,) some very brief attempts at making money online (Clickworker site- if you've heard of it? Complete con in my opinion...) But for the most part- just this awful feeling of despair that I either won't get any of these nearby jobs or even that I will- and I know pretty much (from former experience) that I will hate them. Honestly, even the thought of an interview is freaking me out (social anxiety plus a huge gain in weight- so very few decent clothes fit anymore.)
Honestly, I just don't want to do any of it! It's not like I'm even funding a life I want to live anymore. Even if I miraculously manage to survive the financial storm in my 'dream' creative, freelance job- it isn't doing for me what it used to... (Mainly why I'm spending so much time on here recently- avoiding the inevitable...)
So- that's my initial rant over with (thanks for putting up with it.) Now is the reason I am still here- my Dad. I think it would devastate him if I CTB. I feel like I have to wait for him to go first.
Still- monstrous as it sounds- I don't know how long that will be... What if I have to 'tread water' for years?!! That feels unbearable.
So then- I thought- what if I don't wait? Is there anyway I could make him see and accept CTB was my best option? He's not against assisted suicide for those in pain. In fact, a few of our close family members were very likely 'helped along' in hospital. Stupid part is- I know I'm kidding myself. Even knowing I was actually suicidal rather than just plain old depressed (which is pretty obvious) would likely deeply upset and worry him. I've got this dumb idea that I'll be able to get him to see it rationally but I know I won't because our thinking is so different. He's appalled by 'healthy' people taking their own lives.
Anyhow, I suppose I wanted to ask- for those of you who have told people (especially your parents,) what was their response? And for those who haven't- what do you think they'd say? Do you suppose they'd ever understand or even support us?