help. my mom saw my scars

[girlsboysthems]

So i was in the bathroom in a thong and a bra facetiming a friend and i had my headphones on and i thought i heard something, but i thought it was construction outside, but it turned out my mom came home, and saw me lying on the bathroom floor, basically naked talking to a friend and saw all of my scars on my right thigh. so the cat excuse wouldnt work because i do not have a tiger at home i have a domestic cat, i need a creative excuse, like maybe i got cut up on a reef of seashells? i live by the sea so it could work but still anyone got any better ideas? like im really fucking dumb for not listening to my instincts, like i dont know if shell confront me about it, or is she just going to go around to her friends and tell them, either way im fucked. i dont know what the fuck to do now (she left my house while i was still facetiming a friend).

 

[Goodgirlryeo101]

Are you close to your mom???

If you are close to your mom or even if you are not you can just wait for her, personally I'm not scared of my mum and I own up to everything I have said and done but personally my mum she will admit, deny and change stories basically just gaslighting.

If your mom is a saint then that's okay but if she is always lying, you can just tell her that she wouldn't even be the one to talk when she is a liar herself unless if she is a saint who doesn't lie. If she doesn't come to confront you maybe she is the liar because if it is the truth it can easily be proven with just a simple conversation.

Considering how my mum told me herself about the gang leader etc and other things and now wants to deny what she said this shall be interesting, as far as I'm aware everything that is have said is the truth, it will be interesting to see who is lying and who is telling the truth.

PS - Someone would be called a nasty p!ece of work and will still choose to not believe it hahah! That wasn't acting that's how she truly feels about the stalker but of course she can't really be honest with how she feels about the stalker to the stalker because is will make her look bad and two faced. Oh yeah so much for such a nice woman …

All the best OP.

 

[girlsboysthems]

Are you close to your mom???

If you are close to your mom or even if you are not you can just wait for her, personally I'm not scared of my mum and I own up to everything I have said and done but personally my mum she will admit, deny and change stories basically just gaslighting.

If your mom is a saint then that's okay but if she is always lying, you can just tell her that she wouldn't even be the one to talk when she is a liar herself unless if she is a saint who doesn't lie. If she doesn't come to confront you maybe she is the liar because if it is the truth it can easily be proven with just a simple conversation.

Considering how my mum told me herself about the gang leader etc and other things and now wants to deny what she said this shall be interesting, as far as I'm aware everything that is have said is the truth, it will be interesting to see who is lying and who is telling the truth.

PS - Someone would be called a nasty p!ece of work and will still choose to not believe it hahah! That wasn't acting that's how she truly feels about the stalker but of course she can't really be honest with how she feels about the stalker to the stalker because is will make her look bad and two faced. Oh yeah so much for such a nice woman …

All the best OP.

thank you for your kind words, but same here, she was never that nice and i do not trust her, sadly i still live in her house and i dont have any place to go. i mean she might not even react or say anything but she will say it to someone else to tarnish my name (totally forgetting about the part where she gave birth to me and raised me) and i kinda hope that happens

 

[Goodgirlryeo101]

thank you for your kind words, but same here, she was never that nice and i do not trust her, sadly i still live in her house and i dont have any place to go. i mean she might not even react or say anything but she will say it to someone else to tarnish my name (totally forgetting about the part where she gave birth to me and raised me) and i kinda hope that happens

Oh she reminds me of someone I know she always used to talk bad about her kids to me ( I will just say my siblings to make it more authentic) talk badly about all of them, they just don't know as she would go on a bitchfest about all of them. Do I feel sorry for those siblings??? no I don't, they will or they might not find out for themselves it's their problem not mine really.

Ps - Isn't it a parent's responsibility to raise their child, like you choose to be a parent it's on you, no one is forced to become a parent. Like that woman before she always complained about having wrong kids saying she doesn't know or understand why she got kids that she got.

Actually she also reminds me of this guy's mum who wanted to talk about her son to me but I quickly shut it down because you know what others family issues are not any of my business, I just had no interest or desire to get involved in all of that.

And also my ex who called my family little ugly cword but he always used to complain about how he resented his parents for kicking him out because of his strained relationship with his brother and the parents believed his brother (let's call him Simon to be authentic ) over him because he was causing so much trouble that his friend ( let's call him Dangy) had to take him in because he had nowhere to go.

None of these people that I have mentioned have perfect families but they will be acting as if theirs is so perfect that they will tell anyone and anybody that can hear about others but not mentioning their own.

Just to add my ex told me a lot of stuff and tbh I just realised I haven't even told anyone about a lot things he told me himself hmmm, anyway he is just a lost cause because he is in the closet so I can't even add more problems for him.

All the best OP

 

[crossroads]

Maybe don't say anything at all unless she speaks to you about it ? Will she just drop it?

 

[girlsboysthems]

Maybe don't say anything at all unless she speaks to you about it ? Will she just drop it?

i wont, but i need an excuse in case she does say something...