bubo
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- Jul 14, 2022
- 99
the title of this sounds odd I'm aware but please let me explain myself. It's common knowledge by now that people who are abused will often become abusers, right? Has anyone else ever wondered if they'd end up like this, abusing someone else just like how you were abused? It's definitely an annoying thought and one I don't like thinking about as I'm sure many also don't like to think about it, I mean I'm sure everyone on this website has a reason they are here cuz' trauma doesn't just come out of nowhere so the thought that the cycle would repeat itself is surely a thought no one likes.
many serial killers were children who had terrible childhoods and were influenced by the violent behavior around them thus' also becoming violent and ending up hurting people. The people around me when I was younger were very violent which lead me to be violent as well as a child often hurting my sister for reasons I still don't know and killing neighborhood pets, now that I am an adult I refuse to do things like entering relationships in fear I'd hurt someone or continue an abusive cycle due to my childhood issues. I don't want to get someone's hopes up for something I know they'll regret.
i am curious about other people's thoughts on this kind of subject
I apologize if my wording is incorrect or odd.
many serial killers were children who had terrible childhoods and were influenced by the violent behavior around them thus' also becoming violent and ending up hurting people. The people around me when I was younger were very violent which lead me to be violent as well as a child often hurting my sister for reasons I still don't know and killing neighborhood pets, now that I am an adult I refuse to do things like entering relationships in fear I'd hurt someone or continue an abusive cycle due to my childhood issues. I don't want to get someone's hopes up for something I know they'll regret.
i am curious about other people's thoughts on this kind of subject
I apologize if my wording is incorrect or odd.