XiaroX
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- Dec 5, 2025
- 96
Maybe I'm out of the loop, but it seems to me a lot of people think hacking is cool. Not just when it comes to corrupt organizations, but when it comes to individuals you don't know how to talk to.
So if you've got advanced computer skills, you can try to find out info about people who do not freely choose to share that info. That's violation. It's rape. It's not cool. And I know a lot of people over the years have tried to guess my passwords, but I haven't tried to guess theirs. To me, relating is not a game. Connecting is not a game. And I know that even if all my passwords have the green bar and say 'strong' - to a lot of people, especially those I've known, this is laughable. To say I should have tried harder is like saying I wore the wrong dress, or was asking for it.
Hacking and cyberstalking destroy trust. I don't know who to trust. It's like my earlier issues with sexual assault, combined with this modern form of violence have completely fucked any chance of connection for me,
So if you've got advanced computer skills, you can try to find out info about people who do not freely choose to share that info. That's violation. It's rape. It's not cool. And I know a lot of people over the years have tried to guess my passwords, but I haven't tried to guess theirs. To me, relating is not a game. Connecting is not a game. And I know that even if all my passwords have the green bar and say 'strong' - to a lot of people, especially those I've known, this is laughable. To say I should have tried harder is like saying I wore the wrong dress, or was asking for it.
Hacking and cyberstalking destroy trust. I don't know who to trust. It's like my earlier issues with sexual assault, combined with this modern form of violence have completely fucked any chance of connection for me,