Help Giving money to a friend so they can buy drugs

[jinmaopoison]

I would feel really irresponsible and guilty for helping her spiral but she's going through a lot and we're both suicidal but still I dont know :(. I want her to feel better though really bad. Should I? I dont care about the money itself. I feel like a hypocrite for hesitating

 

[dontwakemeup]

I highly advise against this! If she overdoses and dies, you will most likely feel so much guilt. You can still be her friend in help in different ways. Be there to hold her and listen. There's a thin line between an enabler and friend.

 

[jinmaopoison]

It's ketamine and the alternative is her cutting herself. She's an online friend and I wish I could be there for her in person so we could go out and do something but fuck.

 

[Antyquel]

Is she planning to OD, or for recreational use? It all boils down to what she intends, but people can be unpredictable.

 

[jinmaopoison]

Is she planning to OD, or for recreational use? It all boils down to what she intends, but people can be unpredictable.

Recreational. She's just really sad and wants to be high which I can empathize with 100% which is why I feel like helping her out

Recreational. She's just really sad and wants to be high which I can empathize with 100% which is why I feel like helping her out

Im not stupid and I know as much as she says this'll be the first and only time she asks me to help her out with this, I know how drug addicts are. Its a cycle.

 

[58Alice85]

well at least she is being honest
ketamine does not seem like a really fun drug to me, i saw someone who took this only being able to lay down with this retarded look on his face

 

[jinmaopoison]

well at least she is being honest
ketamine does not seem like a really fun drug to me, i saw someone who took this only being able to lay down with this retarded look on his face

Thats not a yes or a no . she's just coping after a loss

 

[Sleeper System]

You have to leave people free to suffer. You can't save other people from their own suffering. It's a big lesson to learn and it takes a long time to learn. If they are directly asking you for help then that's different. You've created a contract between the two of you that allows for this to happen.

Help the person in the manner that you think is best and whatever consequence it has will be an agreement between both of you that each of you accept and will chose to deal with regardless of what happens.