xostaticxo

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So, my girlfriend now has SN which she picks up later on this week. If she is successful at CTB, there really is no purpose for me anymore.

How high, realistically would I need to jump off of something to make sure it works? My plan would be, if she is successful to jump off of the the multistory Car Park in my home town which is about 8 stories high. Would this work?
 
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HelensNepenthe

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For the sake of your privacy, disclosing locations of where you want to jump from isn't really advisable.
 
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So, my girlfriend now has SN which she picks up later on this week. If she is successful at CTB, there really is no purpose for me anymore.

How high, realistically would I need to jump off of something to make sure it works? My plan would be, if she is successful to jump off of the a place in my home town which is about 8 stories high. Would this work?
People have jumped from 8 storey buildings and survived with horrific injuries . It's around 100ft .
 
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People have jumped from 8 storey buildings and survived with horrific injuries . It's around 100ft .

Damn. Need to think of a different location or different method.
 
MysticPerception

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Wait I'm confused why don't you just use her leftover SN? She can't possibly be using all of it right? Or do you not like SN? Jumping is really hard to pull off both in succeeding and carrying it out so you might want to rethink that method of yours.
 
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Terminally ill

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How come u are not taking SN together with her then? I am sorry it has come to this :(
 
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Broken Chimera

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Like others said, just get her to give you some SN. She won't use it all. I hope it gets better for both of you before it comes to that.
 
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Ghost2211

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As both people said I would wonder why you guys don't just go together if you plan on leaving immediately after anyway.
 
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Wait I'm confused why don't you just use her leftover SN? She can't possibly be using all of it right? Or do you not like SN? Jumping is really hard to pull off both in succeeding and carrying it out so you might want to rethink that method of yours.

She still lives with her parents and they really don't like me, so wont be able to get near the SN tbh.
 
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Broken Chimera

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Just ask her for it. If she says no then just buy your own.
 
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xostaticxo

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How come u are not taking SN together with her then? I am sorry it has come to this :(

We literally can't watch eachother do it. We did have a suicide pact in August but got found out aswell.
Just ask her for it. If she says no then just buy your own.
Actually, good idea. I know where to get it from now.
 
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LegaliseIt!

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The different methods and information that can help you with your decision are linked here.
https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/resource-compilation.3/
 
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Would it not be easier to see one another die if you know that you are accompanying one another instead of being alone?
 
Cheshirecatx

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Would it not be easier to see one another die if you know that you are accompanying one another instead of being alone?
Only issue with that, if one of you instantly regrets seeing the other doing something and calls services, your both stuck and then you've stopped the other being successful which impacts a lot. Some people just like being alone too in that decision, and if one of you survive; you can end up charged with murder. SN may have a high lethality, but there are still cases of survival.
 
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Only issue with that, if one of you instantly regrets seeing the other doing something and calls services, your both stuck and then you've stopped the other being successful which impacts a lot. Some people just like being alone too in that decision, and if one of you survive; you can end up charged with murder. SN may have a high lethality, but there are still cases of survival.

I see, well said.
 
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S1mpleme

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Dec 27, 2019
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So, my girlfriend now has SN which she picks up later on this week. If she is successful at CTB, there really is no purpose for me anymore.

How high, realistically would I need to jump off of something to make sure it works? My plan would be, if she is successful to jump off of the the multistory Car Park in my home town which is about 8 stories high. Would this work?
She wants to CTB and leave you alone, then why do you care about her? Just find a girlfriend who would think about you. And if you want to CTB, why SN is not an option?
 
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Only issue with that, if one of you instantly regrets seeing the other doing something and calls services, your both stuck and then you've stopped the other being successful which impacts a lot. Some people just like being alone too in that decision, and if one of you survive; you can end up charged with murder. SN may have a high lethality, but there are still cases of survival.
Not to mention legal liabilities if you're found alive and she isn't. Could be charged with murder.
 
Cheshirecatx

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May 10, 2019
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Not to mention legal liabilities if you're found alive and she isn't. Could be charged with murder.
That's exactly what I said aha, but yeah, so many more risks with a suicide pact and definitely not worth the consequences if something goes wrong.
 
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xostaticxo

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She wants to CTB and leave you alone, then why do you care about her? Just find a girlfriend who would think about you. And if you want to CTB, why SN is not an option?

I'm not leaving right now because I actually care about her. I know she cares about me aswell. We can break down to either, argue but realise that love is the only option. We have eachother. I know she's unwell and I love her enough to stay. The services have let her down alot and it really isn't her fault.
 
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