BornToFail
Experienced
- Sep 9, 2022
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has anyone else noticed this trend? To be honest it rustles my jimmies.
"caring too much" can have roughly the same effect as not caring at all, putting too much expectation on a child. my friend always did better than me, but still felt she didnt do enough (to give an idea of "better than me but still not enough", i was an honor student before my parents screwed everything up and my depression set in)IMO, this is people offloading about parents who expected way too much of them
because being stupid is a massive disadvantagestupid kids complaining about being stupid
IMO, this is people offloading about parents who expected way too much of them. They're too passive to call out their parents directly, so they ostensibly blame themselves.
I really would not be offended by this- I was considered to be a "gifted kid"- I did very well academically and did very well on standardized tests, academic competitions, etc. But the main reason for this is because all my parents did at home was scream at me and swear at me like crazy and then ignore me, so I was completely shattered inside, and so I didn't learn social skills and I couldn't make friends, I jsut looked at the ground and I wanted to get cancer and die since second grade. The reason I did well academi9cally is because they tell you the rules in books for what you need to do to be good enough, so I studied a lot- people never told you the rules for how you could be friends, all they did was hate. So people who are considered "gifted and talented" sometimes get into it this way, so I wouldn't judge them so harshly and meanly. Others are "gifted and talented" because they have healthy home environments that bring out the best in them, you never know. Saying it "rustles your jimmies" is so demeaning and mean that it is sickening, to be honest.has anyone else noticed this trend? To be honest it rustles my jimmies.
Where is your empathy? We are all suffering here!!!!!has anyone else noticed this trend? To be honest it rustles my jimmies.
was*because being stupid is a massive disadvantage