getting kicked out for being depressed

[catflowers]

what should i do
i get kicked out in 3 days for being a fucking loser
im planning on packing a bunch of stuff and crashing at a guys house from my old high school
my dad said i am not a little kid any more i dont want someone to beat me to death with a pole while on the streets so i am just gonna try to live off a high school friend

 

[TigerFestival]

Seriously? Kicking you out for being depressed? Some family you have, and they say family is supposed to always love and support it's own flesh and blood no matter what. What a joke.

As for what you should do, do you live in the USA? If so, would there be a salvation army nearby? I heard the Salvation army takes in homeless people. There's also food banks for people who can't afford food too. You might be able to pull through, although you're going to struggle.

 

[rationaltake]

This seems harsh. But crashing with a friend sounds like a good idea to start with. Do you have any income?

 

[catflowers]

Seriously? Kicking you out for being depressed? Some family you have, and they say family is supposed to always love and support it's own flesh and blood no matter what. What a joke.

As for what you should do, do you live in the USA? If so, would there be a salvation army nearby? I heard the Salvation army takes in homeless people. There's also food banks for people who can't afford food too. You might be able to pull through, although you're going to struggle.

yeah they can legally do that i am 19 in the usa my dad can kick me out
i could but the thing is california is scary as shit

This seems harsh. But crashing with a friend sounds like a good idea to start with. Do you have any income?

no I spent it all dude i have some hygenine stuff spare change and my phone broke

 

[Life_and_Death]

sorry you had to deal with that. i got kicked out of my parents house for being more adult then they were and i got kicked out of high school because i was depressed and was dealing with abuse at home both at 16 so i get it

 

[TigerFestival]

yeah they can legally do that i am 19 in the usa my dad can kick me out
i could but the thing is california is scary as shit

no I spent it all dude i have some hygenine stuff spare change and my phone broke

Wow, this is worse than I thought. You live in California. Of all states why Cali? Anyway crashing at your friend's house might be the best option. Staying at a homeless shelter at Cali is a nightmare from what I heard. Will your friend let you stay? If they do, will you try to get some job? At least with some income you could get by.

 

[rationaltake]

If you can stay with your friend and don't have a job yet maybe you could offer help with chores or looking after pets. I know this might be hard to do when you're depressed. This is all so unfair!

 

[catflowers]

If you can stay with your friend and don't have a job yet maybe you could offer help with chores or looking after pets. I know this might be hard to do when you're depressed. This is all so unfair!

it's not unfair i have been living rent free with no college or work for 2 years at my dad's house

sorry you had to deal with that. i got kicked out of my parents house for being more adult then they were and i got kicked out of high school because i was depressed and was dealing with abuse at home both at 16 so i get it

getting kicked how? how can you be more adult than your parents

 

[TigerFestival]

it's not unfair i have been living rent free with no college or work for 2 years at my dad's house

What about your mother? Can't you move in with her?

 

[catflowers]

my dad live in cali and i live with him he called my life sad but i don't care i am not getting a job just gonna live with someone else

Wow, this is worse than I thought. You live in California. Of all states why Cali? Anyway crashing at your friend's house might be the best option. Staying at a homeless shelter at Cali is a nightmare from what I heard. Will your friend let you stay? If they do, will you try to get some job? At least with some income you could get by.

What about your mother? Can't you move in with her?

she kicked me out last year for not being in college or working

 

[rationaltake]

I don't live in the States. If you stay with your friend can you claim any benefits? I guess you'd call it welfare? Especially as you're depressed?

 

[catflowers]

I don't live in the States. If you stay with your friend can you claim any benefits? I guess you'd call it welfare? Especially as you're depressed?

no america has shitty health care id just get a roomate

 

[TigerFestival]

my dad live in cali and i live with him he called my life sad but i don't care i am not getting a job just gonna live with someone else


she kicked me out last year for not being in college or working

Man talk about harsh parents. As for not getting a job, I personally can't blame you, working sucks, but it's either that or live under a bridge. Really though it would be nice if we didn't have to work so we don't have to worry about shit like this. Sigh. Good luck though. I really hope your friend is nice enough to let you stay with them rent free.

 

[Life_and_Death]

getting kicked how? how can you be more adult than your parents

kicked out, left in front of walmart at 6am with nothing expect the things i own, no job (on paper), not a cent, as far as they knew no place to go (other then that i dont 100% understand the kicked out how part so i hope i answered it).
how could i be more adult, well simple.
"if you do it again we're gonna kick you out or you can just leave"
"i didnt start it so i might as well leave because i cant ensure it wont happen again"
the story behind it:
i had the job for like a week, working every other night. the nights i worked i stayed up 48hrs. id stay awake that day, go to work, then stay awake the next day, sleep that night repeat. i had literally just got home from work. i had been awake for over 24hrs at this point, plus not sleeping the pass week due to work, i was exhausted. "go cut wood" (im not even suppose to be hauling wood, i have back conditions where the doc said i cant even use a trampoline and i got a note to leave gym). i said i will but i need a nap or a friend to help me. my mother denied. she has previously physically abused me so being an adult i walked out the door and left before the argument ended in someone getting physically hurt. and because i AVOIDED the argument that i didnt even start, i got kicked out.

 

[catflowers]

kicked out, left in front of walmart at 6am with nothing expect the things i own, no job (on paper), not a cent, as far as they knew no place to go (other then that i dont 100% understand the kicked out how part so i hope i answered it).
how could i be more adult, well simple.
"if you do it again we're gonna kick you out or you can just leave"
"i didnt start it so i might as well leave because i cant ensure it wont happen again"
the story behind it:
i had the job for like a week, working every other night. the nights i worked i stayed up 48hrs. id stay awake that day, go to work, then stay awake the next day, sleep that night repeat. i had literally just got home from work. i had been awake for over 24hrs at this point, plus not sleeping the pass week due to work, i was exhausted. "go cut wood" (im not even suppose to be hauling wood, i have back conditions where the doc said i cant even use a trampoline and i got a note to leave gym). i said i will but i need a nap or a friend to help me. my mother denied. she has previously physically abused me so being an adult i walked out the door and left before the argument ended in someone getting physically hurt. and because i AVOIDED the argument that i didnt even start, i got kicked out.

I think being left in front of a walmart with jack shit is cruel i am sorry you got kicked out

 

[hungry_ghost]

I think it's ridiculous that your parents kicked you out, as if you are suddenly supposed to become successful while homeless.

But I don't think living with a friend is going to be viable, either.

It's harsh, but most people do not want an adult living with them who is not contributing and has no desire to.

Is your friend going to buy your food and other necessities?

 

[catflowers]

I think it's ridiculous that your parents kicked you out, as if you are suddenly supposed to become successful while homeless.

But I don't think living with a friend is going to be viable, either.

It's harsh, but most people do not want an adult living with them who is not contributing and has no desire to.

Is your friend going to buy your food and other necessities?

i don't think so but it's fine i have to contact my guy friends and see if i can hookup

 

[Zegers]

Long live good families.

Sorry man.

 

[catflowers]

Long live good families.

Sorry man.

last time i had a good experience with family was back in 2018 honestly