Elek

Elek

Student
Feb 2, 2019
101
Any gay member here? Did you or are you planning to come out to your parents and relatives?
 
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Johnnythefox

Johnnythefox

Que sera sera
Nov 11, 2018
3,129
Any gay member here? Did you or are you planning to come out to your parents and relatives?
As far as I am aware, there are several gay, and transgendered members.
 
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Exile

Predator, criminal, emotional blackmailer
Jan 28, 2019
181
I'm out to everyone.
 
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Jen Erik

Jen Erik

-
Oct 12, 2018
637
Yes, and yes.
 
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Sanguinius

Sanguinius

Chicken of ss
Aug 9, 2018
291
Bisexual girl here, outed :)
 
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Exile

Predator, criminal, emotional blackmailer
Jan 28, 2019
181
I know how this sounds but I find hetero PDA really annoying. This is especially true when you're trying to get somewhere and some couple is holding hands and blocking everyone's way. And it's really repugnant in gay bars. It's bad enough we have so few safe spaces without being constantly reminded of people who oppress us. And no, not everyone who goes to a gay bar is gay friendly.
 
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Motherfly

Motherfly

Student
Oct 24, 2018
108
I know how this sounds but I find hetero PDA really annoying. This is especially true when you're trying to get somewhere and some couple is holding hands and blocking everyone's way. And it's really repugnant in gay bars. It's bad enough we have so few safe spaces without being constantly reminded of people who oppress us. And no, not everyone who goes to a gay bar is gay friendly.
Sounds like you have victim complex/syndrome. Whatever they call it. If you have hatred or disgust towards couples that are holding hands, the problem is probably coming from your own head.

Don't get me wrong, we all have head problems here, me included. But there's no reason to take on other people.
 
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Exile

Predator, criminal, emotional blackmailer
Jan 28, 2019
181
Thanks for the diagnosis - I assume you're a mental health professional or you wouldn't do that, right?
 
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Motherfly

Motherfly

Student
Oct 24, 2018
108
Thanks for the diagnosis - I assume you're a mental health professional or you wouldn't do that, right?
I mean. I hope we still live in a world that we can express our opinions without showing a paper to prove our education.

Was trying to make you think about what you said. Im making my part to educate the hate perpetrators towards my sexual orientation just like im sure you do.
 
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Exile

Predator, criminal, emotional blackmailer
Jan 28, 2019
181
Opinions and diagnoses are two very different things.

I've been trying to educate and build bridges since I was 17. To be frank, I'm really tired of it. You think you're making progress and then someone who should know a lot better comes out with something awful. And this has happened many times, and not just in my experience. At this point, until I go, I want my safe spaces.
 
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thatguyakira123

thatguyakira123

Experienced
Apr 10, 2018
217
Came out to my mom, she's ok with it but doesn't want me to date. Only one other person in my family knows. I'm open about it towards everyone outside of my family. Still due to the homophobic nature of this country, dating is hard, thus I'm alone.
 
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Motherfly

Motherfly

Student
Oct 24, 2018
108
Opinions and diagnoses are two very different things.

I've been trying to educate and build bridges since I was 17. To be frank, I'm really tired of it. You think you're making progress and then someone who should know a lot better comes out with something awful. And this has happened many times, and not just in my experience. At this point, until I go, I want my safe spaces.
You have a safe space, it's called home. Your parents never told you the world is a dangerous place?

What are you, 5?
 
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Exile

Predator, criminal, emotional blackmailer
Jan 28, 2019
181
Umm. Sounds like you need your diaper changed in a hurry, fly.
 
Motherfly

Motherfly

Student
Oct 24, 2018
108
Wants to educate against hate but demeans the concept of safe spaces. Okay.
Safe space is air, its nothing. No one is safe anywhere. The fact that you call any bathroom bar or airport or whatever a safe space, doesnt make it any safer.

That's just delusional.
 
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cccitrus

cccitrus

i just want death and
Aug 14, 2018
40
I don't give a damn about gender, i give a damn about people. And i'm genderfluid;
I'm pretty much out of the closet, that's one the few things i'm confident about
 
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cccitrus

cccitrus

i just want death and
Aug 14, 2018
40
Still due to the homophobic nature of this country, dating is hard, thus I'm alone.

It's the sad truth but luckily there some people who don't care about your sexuality. In a positive way. I guess
 
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Exile

Predator, criminal, emotional blackmailer
Jan 28, 2019
181
Came out to my mom, she's ok with it but doesn't want me to date. Only one other person in my family knows. I'm open about it towards everyone outside of my family. Still due to the homophobic nature of this country, dating is hard, thus I'm alone.

I live in a country that is progressive by most standards, but heterosexism and homophobia and transphobia are still big problems here.
 
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Heart Shards

The shards of my broken heart cut deep.
Feb 3, 2019
535
Just a bisexual girl checking in, nothing fancy about me. Luvs, willow
 
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daemonblight

Member
Jun 26, 2018
82
Gay dude. Came out, mom was alright with it (though not happy) and dad got pissed.
 
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Kimineero

Kimineero

Member
Feb 13, 2019
8
Hi yes hello, i'm a non-binary pansexual who will likely never come out to my family because of how ignorant and closed minded everyone I'm related to happens to be.

However, I am out to my friends, which is honestly more than enough for me.
 
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cccitrus

cccitrus

i just want death and
Aug 14, 2018
40
Hi yes hello, i'm a non-binary pansexual who will likely never come out to my family because of how ignorant and closed minded everyone I'm related to happens to be.

However, I am out to my friends, which is honestly more than enough for me.
good friends who love you the way you are are the best kind of "family" at this point.
 
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BaconCheeseburger

BaconCheeseburger

Comfort-eating
Aug 4, 2018
693
I'm bi, out to my family and close friends. I don't really bring it up to acquaintances unless it comes up in conversation.
 
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ScottPilgram

ScottPilgram

slime guy, xe/xem it/its
Feb 2, 2019
131
I am bi and trans. I'm out to my family. Most of them ignore it but my siblinngs fully support me and use my name and pronouns :)
 
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Burbank

Burbank

sleepyhead
Feb 12, 2019
61
Bisexual girl here. Out to some friends, but i don't see a need to come out to anyone else, unless i start dating another girl
 
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