i´ve been there bro, year of 2013, 1 month before wedding my ex left me for another dude. She was a blonde blue eye Ukranian , incredible hot, beautiful, intelligent, fun... u know perfect to my eyes.. i couldnt believe she was serious about leaving me ..she seemed to love me so much during the 3 years relationship, i always thought she would comeback but guess what .. she didnt..besides i tried everything .. That was my biggest mistake , going after her in the next 2 months.. Everytime she was rejecting me it was like stabing my heart everytime, and everytime i was going after her i was seeing things that were killing me like she seeing the other guy.. for that reasons i fucked up the rest of my life, like leaving my job at a Bank ( i was there 7 years) to move to another country Poland because i thought i would find someone simillar to her lol
i returned 1 month after , to my parents, got only employed in cheaty , low payed jobs selling door to door, started going out with a guy that introduced me to coke.. I changed to a well succeded guy that lot of my friends envied to a broke, unemployed addicted guy., My actual 3 years homework also brought me to a very lonely and unsocial life and i expect to be fired in the next week because i fucked up again
All this to tell u one of the best advices that i wish someone told me at that time: Dont u go after her for anything in the World.. Delete her messages and photos on social media. By blocking u she showed that she dont want you. u must respect that for her and mainly for u. In my case that episode brought to another and other that in the end destroyed my life