Fuck fake people

[HeckingHecked]

My group therapy tried to tell me that I need to settle for fake friends because "everyone is fake". Fuck that. Just cause other people don't have moral compasses doesn't mean i need to compromise on mine. I have things that matter to me.

 

[AppleTreeDog]

My group therapy tried to tell me that I need to settle for fake friends because "everyone is fake". Fuck that. Just cause other people don't have moral compasses doesn't mean i need to compromise on mine. I have things that matter to me.

What the... that's terrible advice, wtf. Why would anyone want fake friends?? No thanks. Keep your standards high y'all

 

[Rogue Proxy]

What the... that's terrible advice, wtf. Why would anyone want fake friends?? No thanks. Keep your standards high y'all

Most humans are so terrified of solitude, they regard it as a fate worse than death. In fact, the worst death for the average human is dying alone without any friends, family, recognition, or attendance for its funeral. It also ties into their cowardice of truth and reality.

 

[HeckingHecked]

Most humans are so terrified of solitude, they regard it as a fate worse than death. In fact, the worst death for the average human is dying alone without any friends, family, recognition, or attendance for its funeral. It also ties into their cowardice of truth and reality.

I think that's true. I personally care more about a truthful life than a happy one. At least I have one real friend. Why are even therapists straight up lying to me?
What the... that's terrible advice, wtf. Why would anyone want fake friends?? No thanks. Keep your standards high y'all
They said I was being "black and white" and "uncooperative". It was stupid.

 

[Rogue Proxy]

Why are even therapists straight up lying to me?

Deep down, mental health enforcers are primarily focused on their ego, reputation, salary, controlling others, and reshaping "broken" individuals into obedient, useful cogs. They don't truly care about their "patient's" mental well-being, individuality, or goals, and will stoop to the lowest levels in satisfying their ulterior motives. Plus, they are usually neurotypical, which results in their duplicitous nature and lack of guilt, shame, or remorse for the consequences of their deception.

 

[Rational man]

Genuine friends stick with you, they empathise when in good and bad times. Fake friends don't.

 

[Silenos]

My group therapy tried to tell me that I need to settle for fake friends because "everyone is fake". Fuck that. Just cause other people don't have moral compasses doesn't mean i need to compromise on mine. I have things that matter to me.

YOUR GROUP THERAPY IS FULL OF SHIT!

...with that out of the way. That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard, and also the complete opposite from the advice given in all the (group) therapy I've had over the years.

 

[Maaizr]

Fuck therapists, fuck "support groups," fuck people . im bringing Armageddon bros, just gotta saveup the $$ in 2022..☠

 

[HeckingHecked]

YOUR GROUP THERAPY IS FULL OF SHIT!

...with that out of the way. That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard, and also the complete opposite from the advice given in all the (group) therapy I've had over the years.

Lol. The person who is giving me advice is 19, too. He isn't even trained.

 

[FuneralCry]

It is better to have no friends than fake friends. Actually I would rather just stay away from everyone, I cannot stand people at all. People can be very cruel.

 

[AppleTreeDog]

Lol. The person who is giving me advice is 19, too. He isn't even trained.

 

[$nowLeopard]

 

[Silenos]

Lol. The person who is giving me advice is 19, too. He isn't even trained.

I am. Tell him I told him to shut the fuck up.

 

[HeckingHecked]

I am. Tell him I told him to shut the fuck up.

Noted haha

 

[us_1999]

I think I'm fake. Too anxious to relax, too deliberate to be real...

 

[$nowLeopard]

I think I'm fake. Too anxious to relax, too deliberate to be real...

Can relate
I'll be a terrible person to associate with

 

[Maaizr]

Can relate
I'll be a terrible person to associate with

theres no way you guys are any worse than the "☠normal people☠" i see/talk to/interact with on a daily basis, you guys are pretty real to me and got courage if you're here even with anonymity

 

[Rational man]

My group therapy

i dont do group therapy. Whatsoever happened to 121 therapy !?. I was invited once by a psychologist to attend a group session over my stress at work..He thought i was ocd with numbers ( yes well i was an accounts manager and i do numbers ).. I l live in a small town and i couldn't handle the prospect of sharing my most inner thoughts with a village gossip.

 

[stellabelle]

My group therapy tried to tell me that I need to settle for fake friends because "everyone is fake". Fuck that. Just cause other people don't have moral compasses doesn't mean i need to compromise on mine. I have things that matter to me.

Good lord, seriously?

While I do agree that there are too many fake people in this world, some are always true, and those tend to be the ones that give up and walk away and say just get rid of me, nothing gets better and all these bastards continue to be such.

You're right that bad advice is bad advice.
It's nice to have "friends" but not if most of which are not loyal. They toss you around for whatever they think it's "worth" and exploit you for whatever they do, and then they take and take and take… they take your possessions, they try to rip away your autonomy and choices, they waste your time, energy, effort, and anything they can because they are…selfish.

Let me guess, "I'm just bipolar" - oh what an excuse.
We try to be loyal only to find ourselves betrayed repeatedly and people say hmmph! How can we fuck with the person again?

Liars and liars and layers and layers and layers.

 

[HeckingHecked]

Good lord, seriously?

While I do agree that there are too many fake people in this world, some are always true, and those tend to be the ones that give up and walk away and say just get rid of me, nothing gets better and all these bastards continue to be such.

You're right that bad advice is bad advice.
It's nice to have "friends" but not if most of which are not loyal. They toss you around for whatever they think it's "worth" and exploit you for whatever they do, and then they take and take and take… they take your possessions, they try to rip away your autonomy and choices, they waste your time, energy, effort, and anything they can because they are…selfish.

Let me guess, "I'm just bipolar" - oh what an excuse.
We try to be loyal only to find ourselves betrayed repeatedly and people say hmmph! How can we fuck with the person again?

Liars and liars and layers and layers and layers.

And then they're like "those are cognitive distortions. people aren't actually like that."

 

[stellabelle]

And then they're like "those are cognitive distortions. people aren't actually like that."

Oh yes they are!
People are cruel, they're selfish.

Full of betrayal in general.

You know.

Some folks do things that are normal, or abnormal, or they're so fucked up from being stuck in an abnormal environment or cycle that escalated and continued to be "stuck" in general.

Easily influenced by others bullcrap.

Then everyone shrugs and wonders why you're so angry, so empty hearted, so isolated, so mad at the world and everyone in it.

People ignore a problem until it becomes unbearable. Rather than resolving it or assisting in resolving it.