Hi 'ManWithNoName',
I am writing to thank you very much for posting this video … it really is excellent. I think it is the first time I have heard someone spoke with clarity about the fact that what we really remember about someone who is no longer with us is what they did, how they made us feel ... in other words who they were in relation to us. I think this is the natural by-product of the fact that we, each individual, are only able to relate to the world and others in it - through ourselves. I am not sure if this makes sense (English is not my first language), but I hope it does at least a little bit.
Thank you,
Una