Reiraku
Member
- May 5, 2020
- 69
Hey guys.
I am likely getting my own first apartment on the 1st of June, moving away from my parents and brothers. With 24 years no less. I absolutely hated it at home, nothing but bad memories, and wanted to leave ASAP. But now that I am about to move out I feel rather anxious and second-guess everything. I often think why should I spend all this money (deposit, rent, etc.) and subject myself to all this stress of moving places if I'm going to die soon anyway. Or that it might worsen my mental condition being completely alone from this point on. It's like "why should I make my life harder now if I don't have much of it left anyway" and thinking I could just spend that money on fun things. Despite that, I am currently expecting to move along with it.
To the people here who got their own place, what was your experience moving out like? Was it a good choice or a bad one, did it go well, what was your first apartement like, how did you manage, anything I should know beforehand? Feel free to share your stories and experiences.
Cheers.
I am likely getting my own first apartment on the 1st of June, moving away from my parents and brothers. With 24 years no less. I absolutely hated it at home, nothing but bad memories, and wanted to leave ASAP. But now that I am about to move out I feel rather anxious and second-guess everything. I often think why should I spend all this money (deposit, rent, etc.) and subject myself to all this stress of moving places if I'm going to die soon anyway. Or that it might worsen my mental condition being completely alone from this point on. It's like "why should I make my life harder now if I don't have much of it left anyway" and thinking I could just spend that money on fun things. Despite that, I am currently expecting to move along with it.
To the people here who got their own place, what was your experience moving out like? Was it a good choice or a bad one, did it go well, what was your first apartement like, how did you manage, anything I should know beforehand? Feel free to share your stories and experiences.
Cheers.