Discussion Final outfit on D Day

[Bulletwbttrflywings]

Yesterday I had to wear a dress for work related function. Since it's classic and easy, I put on my favorite black dress and belt, heels. And off I went. Talking to people, having a drink with others, and being genuinely surprised by having such a good time I forgot about the bus momentarily. It was nice to have a clear moment without the haze of these intrusive thoughts and actually feeling "normal."

Here's when I know I'm not like the rest of those people... I went to the bathroom and looked in the mirror. I saw the dress on me and my first thought was, hmm, this will be my exiting dress... should I decide to CTB.

I never thought about what I'd wear on that day, should it come, but what about you? Have you given any thoughts to the final DDay outfit? Last night was the first time it had even crossed my mind.

 

[whyidon'tknow]

Well, since i'm going out by hanging and I might piss and shit myself maybe bleed from the nose i'm not too concerned about how I look. Will probably wear some comfy PJ's

 

[Thorn]

Nothing special, something clean, just not the GG Allin style.

 

[Scribble Fan]

I want to go out wearing clothes with some sentimental meaning to me. Maybe I could get a Sarah's Scribbles shirt and go out in that. Nothing too fancy, haha.

 

[SinisterKid]

Never given it a moments thought to be honest. I think appearance, to most women [generalisation I know] is far more important than it is to most men, so I can understand why you would think about it. I will probably be in my usual scruffy jeans and tee and they can burn me like that.

 

[tiggles2000]

Personally I have always wondered in movies why military personnel always put on their dress uniform before they CTB. I have considered putting on mine when the time comes, but will prob end up doing it in my chef whites

 

[ArtsyDrawer]

Personally I have always wondered in movies why military personnel always put on their dress uniform before they CTB. I have considered putting on mine when the time comes, but will prob end up doing it in my chef whites

I'm guessing it's a one last fuck you to the army that brought that to that state in the first place.

I don't have outfits per-se, I've taken the Steve Jobs approach to clothes - I have ten gray t-shirts, four pairs of the same black jeans (well, almost same. One is a size 42 while the others are 40. Can't find a 41)
I do have a pile of old t-shirts I don't wear because they're from high school. Oddly, they still fit.
There are also three band shirts, although I'm not sure whether the third is a band shirt or not.

 

[DreamCatcher]

I've thought about wearing something really important to me too, but I haven't chosen a place yet, so getting all of what I want where I go might be a chore. Especially if it involves an international flight.

 

[JWL]

Have you given any thoughts to the final DDay outfit?

Absolutely! Smart black dress trousers and shoes, white shirt and meaningful to me tie.

I wanna look good when I go.

On the other hand, if I'm not found for 6 mths or more, I may not still look so good, lol.

 

[RainAndSadness]

Yes. I have a dress for the final day. I only bought it for that purpose. It's a black dress with ribbons, it looks very lovely. I posted these pictures a while ago in the 'official member pictures'-thread but it doesn't exist anymore, so here you go. I want to look as feminine and pretty as possible on my last day. I think my inspiration is actually the fairy tale about the 'sleeping beauty'. It's basically a story about a beautiful princess who is sleeping in a deep coma and later awakened by a prince. Of course, nobody is gonna wake me up from my sleep anymore.

 

[LaBrava]

Due to poor finances most of my clothes are really threadbare now, so I might buy myself a few new things, a shirt or t-shirt, so i can go out looking decent. I'll just be wearing the jeans and t shirt type clothes I've always been comfortable in.

 

[Morphinekiss]

I suppose I could wear the wedding dress I never got to wear as a giant fuck you to the ex, but since I don't plan on ctbing for a while, that will be pointless. I'd ctb naked but no one wants to see that so I'll probably just wear my silk pajamas

 

[Bulletwbttrflywings]

Interesting. I usually found it pretty much a moot point because once you're gone, does it matter? Not being the typical girl I take the Steve Jobs approach to clothing because I want nothing to do with that rat race.

Although I am very intrigued by the sleeping beauty dress. It's lovely.

 

[Worndown]

Clothing can be part of the process to get to your destination. Like a ritual or ceremony during preparation.

 

[inconsequential]

Yellow sweater with a smiley face, and either smiley face shorts or pajama bottoms.

 

[Lara Francis]

My onesy (a bear) with the hud up and a sign either, in or on top of the coffin saying "goodnight sweet dreams "

 

[Ἡγησίας]

I would like to ctb naked in the bathtub or with a minimal attire like a diaper on a bed, just for respect to those who find me.

 

[KnightOfEnceladus]

I barely have clothes, so most likely it'll be the usual: my old jeans, pair of black socks, and some cheap t-shirt or other.

 

[N-IsMyHope]

I'll wearing a red sweatshirt and black legging. It's my most comfortable outfit. I will die on my bed with fluffy blanket. Cant' wait.

 

[not_a_robot]

I would love it if we could all choose a distinctive outfit to make the news of our suicide, so we will know when it's one of ours. Morbid I know. But walmart has really cheap goofy furry cosplay onesies now so like, wtf, why not.
Unrealistic, I was just thinking like, next-level Heaven's gate shit, but it would make it too easy to paint us as a cult if we did something all similar like that.
"This marks the 12th suicide this year in the series of Disney Princess deaths, part of a sinister online cult that forces people to ctb dressed in prince and princess costumes."
Nah, it's no good.
I may wear a furry onesie though.

 

[secondtimesthecharm]

I'm now two attempts deep and neither time did I give wardrobe any real though, I just put on whatever was comfy and left it at that.

Now I'm feeling like doing that is forfeiting a great opportunity for some dramatic flair. Like why not do my hair and makeup too? A little foreplay for the embalming, if you will.

 

[Final Escape]

I'll be in my birthday suit lol! Just kidding! I'll probably just wear pj's and a tank top. Should I wear adult diaper? Somehow it looks more humiliating, but then so is shitting and pissing yourself. Im gonna look like I have given up on life.

 

[Bulletwbttrflywings]

I would like to ctb naked in the bathtub or with a minimal attire like a diaper on a bed, just for respect to those who find me.

Very thoughtful of you... had that thought as well to be honest

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I would love it if we could all choose a distinctive outfit to make the news of our suicide, so we will know when it's one of ours. Morbid I know. But walmart has really cheap goofy furry cosplay onesies now so like, wtf, why not.
Unrealistic, I was just thinking like, next-level Heaven's gate shit, but it would make it too easy to paint us as a cult if we did something all similar like that.
"This marks the 12th suicide this year in the series of Disney Princess deaths, part of a sinister online cult that forces people to ctb dressed in prince and princess costumes."
Nah, it's no good.
I may wear a furry onesie though.

This is amazing... you have again reignited my creative mind

I'll be in my birthday suit lol! Just kidding! I'll probably just wear pj's and a tank top. Should I wear adult diaper? Somehow it looks more humiliating, but then so is shitting and pissing yourself. Im gonna look like I have given up on life.

Now that it's been said, I think it's one of the kindest things to do in the final clean up. I think those clean up crew members would appreciate it. And the mortician will have a good humor about it.

Adult diapers for the win!!

 

[andy69]

I am planning on hanging myself. I am going to be fully clothed with long pants on, maybe even shoes. I don't want my ex-partner to think or joke with other people that it was a case of autoerotic asphyxiation. I know I should not care about this, but I would want people to know the reasons for taking me life.

 

[Bulletwbttrflywings]

I am planning on hanging myself. I am going to be fully clothed with long pants on, maybe even shoes. I don't want my ex-partner to think or joke with other people that it was a case of autoerotic asphyxiation. I know I should not care about this, but I would want people to know the reasons for taking me life.

Your feelings are validated. I think the ultimate disappointment is to have our lives ending being joked about would be the biggest disappointment... screw them.

And hugs to you, my friend.

 

[Ladylethal]

I'm glad I'm not the only one that's thought about this lol

 

[TimeToDie]

Jeans and polo shirt. It's not as if I have to dress to impress, and I don't have anything to wear that could possibly impress anybody. I live all along, so it's likely going to be quite a while before I'm found, so probably far along in the process of decomposition.

 

[JWL]

I'd ctb naked but no one wants to see that

Cor, yeah, we do!!

 

[levymarie]

I've put a lot of thought into this. I want to be comfortable and decent when I go. I also don't want to be unsightly to find. I'm gonna shower, brush my hair, perfume the room so the death smell isn't so bad, etc. I've always cared about appearances so it only makes sense I go out that way.

 

[Soul]

There are also three band shirts, although I'm not sure whether the third is a band shirt or not.

I would really like to hear more about that third shirt.

There are also three band shirts, although I'm not sure whether the third is a band shirt or not.

I would really like to hear more about that third shirt.

There are also three band shirts, although I'm not sure whether the third is a band shirt or not.

I would really like to hear more about that third shirt.

There are also three band shirts, although I'm not sure whether the third is a band shirt or not.

I would really like to hear more about that third shirt.

LoL! How did THAT happen?!
I really really do.