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OrcWitch
Warlock
- Sep 3, 2021
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Porn is pretty boring and underwhelming to me. Very rarely are they arousing and it's usually only if it's a real couple and you can tell they're enjoying it. I do not masturbate very often and feel arousal infrequently. I like sex and have a sexuality though. Onlyfans, I do not understand why someone would pay for that or how people fall into these pornographic+parasocial relationships with someone who doesn't know or care about them. I don't say any of this judgmentally, I know we're all different, but they're entirely unrelatable issues. Porn addiction is just not something I'm capable of even if I tried, but I hear about it very often now and it's always teenage boys and men that are the victims of it. I see Dr. K videos talking about porn addiction and it's mostly framed from a heterosexual male perspective. I don't know any women who get addicted to masturbation and porn to the point it leads to a decreased quality of life.
I have been wondering what women growing depressed/overstimulated by the internet involves. Possibly unrealistic beauty standards leading to body dysmorphia? Like losing sight of what a normal butt or breasts are supposed to look like on a healthy adult body, due to comparing yourself to countless beautiful models with a combination of rare genetics, surgery and photo editing. Or addiction to attention and praise? Comparing your amount of likes to what others get, feeling inadequate if another person is getting more likes on their selfies even though it's an arbitrary dopamine button.
What do you think?
I have been wondering what women growing depressed/overstimulated by the internet involves. Possibly unrealistic beauty standards leading to body dysmorphia? Like losing sight of what a normal butt or breasts are supposed to look like on a healthy adult body, due to comparing yourself to countless beautiful models with a combination of rare genetics, surgery and photo editing. Or addiction to attention and praise? Comparing your amount of likes to what others get, feeling inadequate if another person is getting more likes on their selfies even though it's an arbitrary dopamine button.
What do you think?