Venting Fell in love again

[daemonblight]

Basically, what the title says; I fell for a boy that I've only chatted with for 2 and a half months (I usually don't fall in love that fast, but he was really my ideal boyfriend) and now I'll just end up feeling even worse when he gets sick of me. I hate falling in love. I'm unlovable, needy and clingy, so no surprise the feeling's never mutual.

Anyway, sorry for ranting, I just needed to vent.

 

[Miss clefable]

Basically, what the title says; I fell for a boy that I've only chatted with for 2 and a half months (I usually don't fall in love that fast, but he was really my ideal boyfriend) and now I'll just end up feeling even worse when he gets sick of me. I hate falling in love. I'm unlovable, needy and clingy, so no surprise the feeling's never mutual.

Anyway, sorry for ranting, I just needed to vent.

hope you find happiness and love

 

[daemonblight]

hope you find happiness and love

thank you and the same to you <3

 

[Fgogrl]

same for me, my love is always unrequited : ( I've given up my search for a good man. Being single is my natural state anyway.

 

[21Neberg]

Basically, what the title says; I fell for a boy that I've only chatted with for 2 and a half months (I usually don't fall in love that fast, but he was really my ideal boyfriend) and now I'll just end up feeling even worse when he gets sick of me. I hate falling in love. I'm unlovable, needy and clingy, so no surprise the feeling's never mutual.

Anyway, sorry for ranting, I just needed to vent.

Don't say that! You deserve love just as much as everyone else. I think you should go for it! See where it takes you. Maybe he's really open-minded and nice and he might even accept your demons and love you regardless. He would be the perfect man, and I think he could really change your outlook on life.

Of course, things could end in a break-up like they did for me. But I'll be honest - even though I'm as broken as I've ever been right now, I was still somewhat loved for a month and I'm thankful for it.

 

[JustAboutDone]

Basically, what the title says; I fell for a boy that I've only chatted with for 2 and a half months (I usually don't fall in love that fast, but he was really my ideal boyfriend) and now I'll just end up feeling even worse when he gets sick of me. I hate falling in love. I'm unlovable, needy and clingy, so no surprise the feeling's never mutual.

Anyway, sorry for ranting, I just needed to vent.

Firstly, don't think you are unlovable - you are not. This person wouldn't have been chatting with you for 2 and a half months if they didn't like you at least a little. If they want to call it a day then it's their loss.

Some people fall in love harder and/ or faster than others. I don't think there's a right or wrong way to do these things! It's all about how you feel and how you feel is how you feel.

Some people may be a little scared if they feel someone else seems a little too 'intense'. That's fine too. Things can move at a slower pace. What I would say, if you are someone who always finds they are quite intense when they are in love or in a relationship then try and just take a little step back and try and work on yourself a little. For example try to do a few things on your own, or with other friends like exercise or a meal out - just so the relationship doesn't 'consume' you.

That way you and your new love both retain your own identities - and can come together as a couple with more fresh things to talk about.

Sending you love

 

[daemonblight]

@21Neberg @JustAboutDone
Thank you for the support and advice, it means a lot to me. I'm glad there are still nice people in the world :)