lovelypirategirl
I'm not ok, I'm just good at pretending I am
- Mar 22, 2020
- 38
Hello again dear SS friends,
I've been feeling like shit in the past few days. And it is very hard for me, because I feel so lonely Everytime I express IRL how I feel, people usually underestimates my feelings or they simply think I'm exaggerating, specially when I tell them that I feel ugly and that that's enough reason to make me get a panick attack.
I hate how I look. I hate my face, my nose and my chin/jaw. I hate my breasts, my body shape and the fact that I'm overweight and haven't been able to lose weight in at least 10 years. I hate my legs and my feet. I have hirsutism (excessive body hair in male patterns) due to PCOS and excessive male hormons in my body and it really traumatizes me. I just started this week with spironolactone after seeing an endocrinologist and I hope it works.
My weight has been an issue my whole life... there was a time I used to be thin and because of my stupid anxiety I started to eat all my problems and gained tons of weight. I'm 1.60 m (5.3 ft) and I'm 76 kg (167 lb). In the past 10 years I've tried everything: diets, gym, exercise, medicines and haven't been able to stay in a healthy weight. Sometimes I've lost some weight but it's just a matter of weeks I recover it again.
Sometimes I feel so ugly, I can't even go out. I've missed parties, dinners and important events because I feel gross. And I can't share how I feel, because my friends simply can't understand this. In their eyes, maybe I'm not the most beautiful girl, but they think I have some kind of beauty.
I just got ghosted again by a guy and this breaks completely the little self-esteem I start to build. I'm 27 and last time I had a boyfriend was 13 years ago... and I seriously think it has to do because I'm so ugly.
I'm starting to save some money so I can get some plastic cirguries. Before I die I want to feel at least once that I'm beautiful.
I've been feeling like shit in the past few days. And it is very hard for me, because I feel so lonely Everytime I express IRL how I feel, people usually underestimates my feelings or they simply think I'm exaggerating, specially when I tell them that I feel ugly and that that's enough reason to make me get a panick attack.
I hate how I look. I hate my face, my nose and my chin/jaw. I hate my breasts, my body shape and the fact that I'm overweight and haven't been able to lose weight in at least 10 years. I hate my legs and my feet. I have hirsutism (excessive body hair in male patterns) due to PCOS and excessive male hormons in my body and it really traumatizes me. I just started this week with spironolactone after seeing an endocrinologist and I hope it works.
My weight has been an issue my whole life... there was a time I used to be thin and because of my stupid anxiety I started to eat all my problems and gained tons of weight. I'm 1.60 m (5.3 ft) and I'm 76 kg (167 lb). In the past 10 years I've tried everything: diets, gym, exercise, medicines and haven't been able to stay in a healthy weight. Sometimes I've lost some weight but it's just a matter of weeks I recover it again.
Sometimes I feel so ugly, I can't even go out. I've missed parties, dinners and important events because I feel gross. And I can't share how I feel, because my friends simply can't understand this. In their eyes, maybe I'm not the most beautiful girl, but they think I have some kind of beauty.
I just got ghosted again by a guy and this breaks completely the little self-esteem I start to build. I'm 27 and last time I had a boyfriend was 13 years ago... and I seriously think it has to do because I'm so ugly.
I'm starting to save some money so I can get some plastic cirguries. Before I die I want to feel at least once that I'm beautiful.