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lost_soul83

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I live with my boyfriend and son but I would like to ctb alone in a hotel room, but I can't think of an excuse to leave home and go to a hotel. Any ideas?
 
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Where are you? In the uk I don't think you can atm unless you're arriving on a plane and have to quarantine because of covid
 
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Maybe make an excuse to go to your friends or parents place, or you can also just leave without letting them notice. You can also make up an excuse and tell him you need some time alone so you need to leave to a hotel for a while. I don't know anything about your situation, hotels could also be closed in your area due to covid
 
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lost_soul83

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Hey @GenesAndEnvironment any reason you reacted with anger to this post??
Where are you? In the uk I don't think you can atm unless you're arriving on a plane and have to quarantine because of covid
I'm in the US.
 
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WornOutLife

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Edit:

My suggestion was not good. I'm trying to think of any other excuse for you to leave the house...

Do you work? What about telling him that you've got a work meeting or something like that?
 
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You could tell him you'll stay over at one of your friends house. (also, you should tell THAT friend that you have some kind of lover and gonna see him for one night or something like that so that she covers up your "story")
That's a definite NO NO!! Never involve a loved one in your ctb plans, especially if they're going to have to lie for you. Can you imagine how that friend would feel when they find out you're dead by suicide and involved THEM in your getaway plans!
 
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WornOutLife

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That's a definite NO NO!! Never involve a loved one in your ctb plans, especially if they're going to have to lie for you. Can you imagine how that friend would feel when they find out you're dead by suicide and involved THEM in your getaway plans!

Well, that's true! Her friend would feel terrible.
Damn, I can't find any other excuse.
 
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lost_soul83

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That's a definite NO NO!! Never involve a loved one in your ctb plans, especially if they're going to have to lie for you. Can you imagine how that friend would feel when they find out you're dead by suicide and involved THEM in your getaway plans!
How would that be involving him in my "getaway plans?" I'd just be lying to him to get outta the house, he wouldn't be involved. Not like I'd ask him to book the room for me or something.
 
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How would that be involving him in my "getaway plans?" I'd just be lying to him to get outta the house, he wouldn't be involved. Not like I'd ask him to book the room for me or something.
Hey, the choice is yours... you go for it, but I know I couldn't do it to a friend of mine.
 
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lost_soul83

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Jan 7, 2019
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Hey, the choice is yours... you go for it, but I know I couldn't do it to a friend of mine.
Do what exactly? It's no different than any other lie you'd tell anyone. Plus, I don't think anyone should be judging anyone. I'm just trying to avoid having to do this at home while my kid is asleep!
 
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Maybe in the car? Can just drive somewhere saying you have a craving for fast food or something. Then can do it in the car somewhere?

idk but I hope you achieve what you want.
 
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lost_soul83

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Jan 7, 2019
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Maybe in the car? Can just drive somewhere saying you have a craving for fast food or something. Then can do it in the car somewhere?

idk but I hope you achieve what you want.
Thank you ✌️❤️
 
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Jan 15, 2021
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I live with my boyfriend and son but I would like to ctb alone in a hotel room, but I can't think of an excuse to leave home and go to a hotel. Any ideas?
how are you going to ctb?
 
charlottewilts

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I said I wanted to use their indoor pool (it was winter). To the bellboy though, not to my family. I don't even know how to swim...
 
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OblivionSeeker

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Aug 8, 2020
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This is something I'm considering too----leaning to ctb in a hotel room. I don't have everything planned out yet. I'm planning on waiting for a time when my husband is working on the computer, and not paying any attention to what I'm doing. then quietly call a cab, and silently slip out of the house, and go to a hotel. My husband pays so little attention to me, it would be hours before he even realizes I'm gone. (we're retired and he has completely shut me out, even though we still live together)
 
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