Evil wife

[coldeyes]

My wife swears she'll never leave till I kill myself. She means it

 

[SpottedPanda]

Can you elaborate?

 

[Kumachan]

My wife swears she'll never leave till I kill myself. She means it

Sounds like a decent wife, "till death do us apart" kinda mentality...

 

[autumnal]

Can you elaborate?

I agree. Right now, the post reads like an ominous tagline on a movie poster.


EDIT: OK, I was bored so I went there. This is not intended to make fun of the OP's situation, incidentally. Just referencing the ominous wording style of his first post. Hopefully it might even give him a chuckle.

 

[Fedrea]

My wife swears she'll never leave till I kill myself. She means it

That makes her sound horrible, and it's always a great shame when the horrible people win out. Can you leave her?

 

[rhiino]

Well, she doesn't have to leave, does she? You can leave her.

 

[aukguy]

Sounds like a 'keeper' to me. Reading between the lines: "she wont leave" means she is devoted and will love you whatever your mistakes or frailties; when you kill yourself its a double edged sword, you are leaving her alone and she will leave you in that you will no longer be here on earth with her.

Saying 'evil wife' sounds like you resent her sticking around, and that you might find it easier to suicide without her emotional involvement.

Might be wrong on all counts above, but please let us into your thinking.

 

[Winston]

My wife swears she'll never leave till I kill myself. She means it

Technically she wouldn't be leaving if you CTB. CTB would be leaving her. Did you ask her to leave you?

 

[SpottedPanda]

I agree. Right now, the post reads like an ominous tagline on a movie poster.


EDIT: OK, I was bored so I went there. This is not intended to make fun of the OP's situation, incidentally. Just referencing the ominous wording style of his first post. Hopefully it might even give him a chuckle.


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I spent five full minutes laughing to myself, picturing this as a movie poster, even considered getting my drawing tablet out, even though my art skills aren't really up to par. Was thinking more a nineties teen horror aesthetic, but that pretty much nails what I was picturing.

I'm sure the full story, if one exists in reality, is far less funny. Although the vague description leaves a lot to the imagination.

 

[Soul]

"The Stan Award"?! Ohh please give the man a break! A Marquis/Marquee Award could work.
Excellent poster design, though!

There's a song in the country I live in that's pretty much about the nightmarish situation where the spouse won't stop no matter what.
"Even when you're cursing her in despair, Love will forgive you everything" ... Worse, people take it as sweetly sentimental when it's full-fledged no-way-out nightmare.

 

[SpottedPanda]

"The Stan Award"?! Ohh please give the man a break! A Marquis/Marquee Award could work.
Excellent poster design, though!

There's a song in the country I live in that's pretty much about the nightmarish situation where the spouse won't stop no matter what.
"Even when you're cursing her in despair, Love will forgive you everything" ... Worse, people take it as sweetly sentimental when it's full-fledged no-way-out nightmare.

Reminds me of this song.



It's seen as a love song, but really it's about an unhinged stalker.

 

[Final Escape]

Lol! Can't u leave her? I suppose it's hard when u guys live together and in the midst of economic collapse. This might halt some divorce proceedings.

 

[Amnesty]

I hope you leave your wife soon. :)

 

[coldeyes]

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That makes her sound horrible, and it's always a great shame when the horrible people win out. Can you leave her?

I can't leave her. She's a master manipulator. Twice called police on her, then she breaks down, I feel pity and the police feel pity. I let her stay.

 

[Amnesty]

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I can't leave her. She's a master manipulator. Twice called police on her, then she breaks down, I feel pity and the police feel pity. I let her stay.

There are resources to learn how to beat manipulators out there.

 

[coldeyes]

Can you elaborate?

Twice she's tried to stab me. Broken finger, disfigured face, etc. It's such a long story, it's better than an evil movie story. So I've decided to die. Though I pity the kids. Still young. Always wonder what the kids did to God to deserve a mother like that. Sad.

 

[Amnesty]

Twice she's tried to stab me. Broken finger, disfigured face, etc. It's such a long story, it's better than an evil movie story. So I've decided to die. Though I pity the kids. Still young. Always wonder what the kids did to God to deserve a mother like that. Sad.

That is illegal and you need to gather evidence that she is doing these things. There are plenty of resources out there that could be searched up onto how to catch and leave manipulatirs as mentioned before.

 

[SpottedPanda]

Twice she's tried to stab me. Broken finger, disfigured face, etc. It's such a long story, it's better than an evil movie story. So I've decided to die. Though I pity the kids. Still young. Always wonder what the kids did to God to deserve a mother like that. Sad.

Sorry to hear that, the threat of domestic violence is horrific. Can't you yourself leave in a way that she doesn't notice until you're gone, thereby removing the potential threat and attempts to make you stay?

 

[Amnesty]

She taught me pure evil exists in the world. Like she's possesed by a Satan of sorts. She may even make me evil and end up killing her. If I don't kill myself first. Evil to the core.

You need to break that Satan and God minddset of yours. That idea is used by manipulators and people for control and power. People get all the money and rationalizes their abuse woth God.

 

[coldeyes]

You need to break that Satan and God minddset of yours. That idea is used by manipulators and people for control and power. People get all the money and rationalizes their abuse woth God.

How else would you explain such evil predisposition in a person? It's unnatural.

 

[SpottedPanda]

How else would you explain such evil predisposition in a person? It's unnatural.

Maybe she's just messed up, a bad egg. Certainly sounds like it.

Not everyone believes in God or The Devil. So a lot of people will agree that she seems evil, though not in a biblical sense.

 

[coldeyes]

Sorry to hear that, the threat of domestic violence is horrific. Can't you yourself leave in a way that she doesn't notice until you're gone, thereby removing the potential threat and attempts to make you stay?

She's got my kids. Whom she got without my consent. You get attached to kids

 

[SpottedPanda]

She's got my kids. Whom she got without my consent. You get attached to kids

I appreciate that, but if you commit suicide, you're not going to see them again. If you leave and there's no amicable compromise, you might be able to see them again when they're of age.

I'm not sure if this is helpful, as your situation sounds like it needs extreme and complex measures taken, but those are my two pennies.

 

[Red]

If she's that bad, please don't leave the kids with her. Learn how to dodge the manipulation and expose her for what she is. Record the bitch. Refuse to be drawn into her shit. Stand up for your kids n at least get them out first. It took me a decade to rescue my kid from his abusive father after we split but he's with me now. There was some damage dealt and there's still work to be done with regards to recovery but he's in a much better place than he would've been otherwise.

 

[Winston]

She's got my kids. Whom she got without my consent.

Hard to follow that she wont leave you, yet is somewhere with your kids. Could you tell us your story to help us understand the situation better?

 

[omoidarui]

being single is understated

 

[Shoopie]

Sadly bullies only respond to strength, which when you're stuck in an abusive relationship with one can be difficult to find. You have my sympathy.