RainyAfternoon
Member
- Mar 2, 2025
- 17
My life is a series of failed relationships that barely get off the ground before the other person ends it. I feel like life is teasing me with the hope of something happy and fulfilling, only for it to be ripped away from me before I can even enjoy it.
This has happened so many times I've lost count. I meet someone new, there's tons of chemistry, everything aligns and they seem super interested in me... then weeks or months in, they end it without any explanation or discussion.
I'm too soft for this, each time this happens it crushes me and sends me to the pits of hopelessness. Each failure makes me wonder what's wrong with me that makes people suddenly decide they don't want to be with me.
I used to think that relationships were about working through problems and having good communication, but these days it feels like everyone would rather move onto something else. My hope of finding a healthy relationship with someone attractive and compatible with me seems impossible. I have good standards, I would rather be alone than with the wrong person. But even the "right" people I meet never work out.
I can't even enjoy dating or relationships now because I expect them to end suddenly. I have no trust because all I've ever known is being blindsided and discarded. Even if I find a happy relationship at some point, how am I supposed to feel safe and content, knowing they could turn on me at any moment?
At this point, I genuinely believe this is hell and I am being tortured.
This has happened so many times I've lost count. I meet someone new, there's tons of chemistry, everything aligns and they seem super interested in me... then weeks or months in, they end it without any explanation or discussion.
I'm too soft for this, each time this happens it crushes me and sends me to the pits of hopelessness. Each failure makes me wonder what's wrong with me that makes people suddenly decide they don't want to be with me.
I used to think that relationships were about working through problems and having good communication, but these days it feels like everyone would rather move onto something else. My hope of finding a healthy relationship with someone attractive and compatible with me seems impossible. I have good standards, I would rather be alone than with the wrong person. But even the "right" people I meet never work out.
I can't even enjoy dating or relationships now because I expect them to end suddenly. I have no trust because all I've ever known is being blindsided and discarded. Even if I find a happy relationship at some point, how am I supposed to feel safe and content, knowing they could turn on me at any moment?
At this point, I genuinely believe this is hell and I am being tortured.
