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busrider
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- Aug 10, 2024
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I've already posted that the thought of my family finding my body makes me sad, which is why I want to do everything at the hotel. but the problem is that I can't just get a hotel room any day and do everything there. My mom is (a bit??) overcontrolling.
Also, I googled what you should do after a person's death and how much the funeral costs. I chose cremation because you know ecology. But I'm a little concerned that average funeral in my country costs around 500-600$. I know my parents have money like that, but this made me sad AGAIN that they would have to spend money on me even after my CTB. God, even after CTB I will be a problem. Now I'm thinking about doing everything at home on the last day before they come from vacation as i planed before, but i will leave a big note on the door of my room "call the police I CTB" or something like that.
Now I'm just sitting on the funeral parlors websites and trying to pick the best offer to make it a little bit easier for my family
PLUS I do not know how common this is in other countries, but in my (Russia btw) often hospitals after receiving a call about someone's death leak this information to different funeral parlors and they can arrive even before the ambulance or police, to trying to extort more money from them while they're in a state of affect. it's terrible. I don't want my family to go through this
idk i wish i didn't care that much but afterall it's my family
(btw I was shocked how expensive funeral in the USA (this is information from Google). I mean my mom makes 1100-1350 USD per month, it costs as her salarie x7? what?????)
Also, I googled what you should do after a person's death and how much the funeral costs. I chose cremation because you know ecology. But I'm a little concerned that average funeral in my country costs around 500-600$. I know my parents have money like that, but this made me sad AGAIN that they would have to spend money on me even after my CTB. God, even after CTB I will be a problem. Now I'm thinking about doing everything at home on the last day before they come from vacation as i planed before, but i will leave a big note on the door of my room "call the police I CTB" or something like that.
Now I'm just sitting on the funeral parlors websites and trying to pick the best offer to make it a little bit easier for my family
PLUS I do not know how common this is in other countries, but in my (Russia btw) often hospitals after receiving a call about someone's death leak this information to different funeral parlors and they can arrive even before the ambulance or police, to trying to extort more money from them while they're in a state of affect. it's terrible. I don't want my family to go through this
idk i wish i didn't care that much but afterall it's my family
(btw I was shocked how expensive funeral in the USA (this is information from Google). I mean my mom makes 1100-1350 USD per month, it costs as her salarie x7? what?????)